No, Blink. My point is, it's not THERE. Going and searching for it is a wild goose chase, because it doesn't exist. Nobody seems to CARE that this problem exists in this forum. If I am wrong, then SHOW me - but I'm NOT wrong, and all the unsubstantiated assertions in the world that I am wrong won't change that.
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Also, Blink, I noticed that you avoided answering my question.
If the answer is yes, then prove it. Right now, I present this thread as evidence that this forum is openly hostile to women seeking information about spousal support. I invite you to present evidence that it's not. That is not me asking someone else to do my work for me. My contributions to this thread have been considered and careful, without resorting to snappy one-liners or sarcasm, which is in fact ALL I have received in return. I am hardly the one to point fingers at in terms of laziness in this discussion. I am still waiting for someone - anyone - to engage in a thoughtful manner in this discussion.
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A search on "spousal support" turns up the maximum number of threads at 500.
Are you telling us that there is no good information in the more than 500 threads on the topic?
You're full of shit.
While I'm not an expert on SS, many others are. There is a wealth of good information on this site about SS. Even from the men here. Check the dozens and dozens of good posts from NBDad or billm on SS.
And too bad so sad love Dad if you have to sift through some emotional garbage to get at it. No one here promised to serve it to you in bed on a silver platter.
The price is right so roll up your sleeves and get busy. And stop crying.
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Originally posted by canadamama View PostOK here's a question then.
IS this forum an appropriate place for women to come seeking information about their entitlement to spousal support?
If yes, could someone please direct me to any thread in which this matter is discussed without her character being attacked? Honestly, I have done a lot of reading here, and I haven't found one yet.
Originally posted by canadamama View PostNo, Blink. My point is, it's not THERE. Going and searching for it is a wild goose chase, because it doesn't exist. Nobody seems to CARE that this problem exists in this forum. If I am wrong, then SHOW me - but I'm NOT wrong, and all the unsubstantiated assertions in the world that I am wrong won't change that.
Originally posted by canadamama View PostAlso, Blink, I noticed that you avoided answering my question.
If the answer is yes, then prove it. Right now, I present this thread as evidence that this forum is openly hostile to women seeking information about spousal support. I invite you to present evidence that it's not. That is not me asking someone else to do my work for me. My contributions to this thread have been considered and careful, without resorting to snappy one-liners or sarcasm, which is in fact ALL I have received in return. I am hardly the one to point fingers at in terms of laziness in this discussion. I am still waiting for someone - anyone - to engage in a thoughtful manner in this discussion.
Kthanxbye!
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Originally posted by dadtotheend View Post
No WONDER you don't care about the problem - you ARE the problem!!
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So you demand that we do your looking for you? And then we when we do it and it clearly shows that YOU ARE WRONG after less than one minute looking, you change the rules?
I never professed to be an expert on SS. Indeed (confidential to you know who) I have said many times here that I'm not an expert. Ask me about custody/access and division of family property and I'm da bomb.
What I do know about SS is that I paid it for four years to my ex and you will NOT find one singleton post by me that gripes about it. I had the means and she had the need, so I willingly agree to it, I paid it and I NEVER complained about it. So PROVE IT, go find a post by me, any post where I complained about paying her!!!
I'm the problem? You're a bitch. F**k you very much.
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Originally posted by canadamama View PostLOL - you know what is pathetic? That you had to find a thread that none of YOU lot participated in! NB Dad was the only person to even attempt to offer helpful information in this thread, and is the only person from this thread that participated in the one you directed me to.
Oh, and, swallow the effin' pill. You asked for evidence and you got it; can't change the rules now. Nyah-nyah.
Cheers!
Gary
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troll (from Urban Dictionary)
One who purposely and deliberately (that purpose usually being self-amusement) starts an argument in a manner which attacks others on a forum without in any way listening to the arguments proposed by his or her peers. He will spark of such an argument via the use of ad hominem attacks (i.e. 'you're nothing but a fanboy' is a popular phrase) with no substance or relevence to back them up as well as straw man arguments, which he uses to simply avoid addressing the essence of the issue.
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Originally posted by Mess View PostSo you're saying that dtte is nothing but a troll and therefore he's wrong?
This forum is what YOU all make it, and it is what it is. I am just calling you out on it.
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Originally posted by Mess View PostSo you're saying that dtte is nothing but a troll and therefore he's wrong?
... and that therefore he is a troll - ditto for you, Mess, at least in this thread.
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