About a month and a half ago my gf and I got approved for a mortgage and we found a house in our budget for the size of our family which totals 3 kids with one on the way. It is about 75KM away from where I am living now as I had to move further out due to the cost of housing where I am.
Now I have a past order from 2008 that my ex and I settled on in mediation. I agreed to settle for joint custody with her and have equal visitation. Big mistake as she didn't even go a week without completely disregarding the order we made. Sometimes she goes weeks to months without contact with him.
As soon as my ex found out about the house she filed a motion to change (which I found out about because I tried to file one also but thats a different story). When she served me I served her right back with a reply. I went down to the court house to file my affidavit of service and I also file a motion without notice and I asked for an expedited case conference as I was going to be moving in two months. That got declined on the grounds that there were no available dates before my first appearance but I would be allowed to go before a Judge on my first appearance.
Well I had my first appearance yesterday and low and behold I am not allowed to go before a Judge to ask for a temporary order to allow me to move with my son who is in my full care 99% of the time and set out an access schedule with his mom. What they did do is schedule a case conference basically 13 days away.
Now this is where I am confused as I have gotten multiple different answers. I need the Judge to be able to grant a Temporary Order at my first case conference as my moving day is 10 days after that. How do I go about doing this? Can I just put it in my 17a Case brief or do I have to go about it some other way?
Also and I am really sorry this is so winded guys/girls I am just very stressed, How bad does it look on me to move away with him anyways? I mean she has never followed a damn thing in our court order anyways why all of a sudden am I obligated to or I look like I've been in contempt. Hasn't she been in contempt the past 3 years. Grrrrrrrr. Anyways people please help I need some advice and help more then I ever have in my life. Thanks in advance to those that reply.
Now I have a past order from 2008 that my ex and I settled on in mediation. I agreed to settle for joint custody with her and have equal visitation. Big mistake as she didn't even go a week without completely disregarding the order we made. Sometimes she goes weeks to months without contact with him.
As soon as my ex found out about the house she filed a motion to change (which I found out about because I tried to file one also but thats a different story). When she served me I served her right back with a reply. I went down to the court house to file my affidavit of service and I also file a motion without notice and I asked for an expedited case conference as I was going to be moving in two months. That got declined on the grounds that there were no available dates before my first appearance but I would be allowed to go before a Judge on my first appearance.
Well I had my first appearance yesterday and low and behold I am not allowed to go before a Judge to ask for a temporary order to allow me to move with my son who is in my full care 99% of the time and set out an access schedule with his mom. What they did do is schedule a case conference basically 13 days away.
Now this is where I am confused as I have gotten multiple different answers. I need the Judge to be able to grant a Temporary Order at my first case conference as my moving day is 10 days after that. How do I go about doing this? Can I just put it in my 17a Case brief or do I have to go about it some other way?
Also and I am really sorry this is so winded guys/girls I am just very stressed, How bad does it look on me to move away with him anyways? I mean she has never followed a damn thing in our court order anyways why all of a sudden am I obligated to or I look like I've been in contempt. Hasn't she been in contempt the past 3 years. Grrrrrrrr. Anyways people please help I need some advice and help more then I ever have in my life. Thanks in advance to those that reply.
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