I find myself struggling to provide support and helpful advice to my partner about his kids. His oldest is pretty cruel and pulls stunts all the time where he gets “reprimanded” for whatever his ex feels he has done wrong.
He has now been sent a request to order photos but last month was told he didn’t pay enough for the privilege to attend school graduations. Translation, I don’t want you to enjoy a special day that means a lot to you but feel free to be reminded of it with my photo on your wall. I really do not get their logic and the continued stunts like this are hurtful.
Anyone else deal with kids like this? How would you handle it? All this is going to result in is two weeks of heartbreak for him. He gets stronger, moves past their bs then they play this game again. He could just order the photos and be done with it but part of me wants him to say “Im confused by this, I didn’t contribute to your standard but its ok for me to buy photos of you? Do you not see an issue with this?”
He has now been sent a request to order photos but last month was told he didn’t pay enough for the privilege to attend school graduations. Translation, I don’t want you to enjoy a special day that means a lot to you but feel free to be reminded of it with my photo on your wall. I really do not get their logic and the continued stunts like this are hurtful.
Anyone else deal with kids like this? How would you handle it? All this is going to result in is two weeks of heartbreak for him. He gets stronger, moves past their bs then they play this game again. He could just order the photos and be done with it but part of me wants him to say “Im confused by this, I didn’t contribute to your standard but its ok for me to buy photos of you? Do you not see an issue with this?”
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