To try to make it brief, I haven't seen my kids in years and years, she's moved them across the country, out of the country illegally, etc., etc. I really don't care any more and just want them to all go away.
We have a Consent Corollary Relief Judgment that sets out child support. In it is a clause saying I wasn't to pay the table amount as I had the kids for four years and she never paid me a cent - even though she was ordered to.
I paid that child support (2004) for the remainder of the year.
She moved away, got remarried, etc., and eventually asked me to increase the child support, which I did three different times.
Now, she's back in Canada, crying again over everything, owing Revenue Canada money, etc., etc., and trying to say I owe her back support to 2004 according to the table amounts as well as I now owe her the full table amounts period.
Can she go back and get the back support?
I know I have no hope of not paying her the table amount now - the court is entirely on her side no matter how evil she is, how many times she moved the kids, how many husbands she's had (four), the fact she kicked me out when they were six months old to move her boyfriend in, etc., etc., etc.
The court will just give her her money, table amount (which is completely unreasonable) and I'm screwed.
Do you think she's entitled to back support, too, even though she never asked for it and we have emails to that effect, as well as emails with her asking us for more money and we paid it, etc. Nothing formal, though. we got along for five years - she was thousands of miles away.
Now she's back. She's in Ontario. I'm in Nova Scotia.
I've tried to talk to lawyers but none will answer me, none will just say yes or no, they want tons of details, hours of consultations, etc., etc. and I don't have that kind of money. I drive a truck - and my wife works part-time, her teenager lives with us and we live very simply compared to most - old car, no social life, no smoking, no entertainment, no eating out, etc., etc.
So do you think she'll get her back support if she takes us to court?
Can she force us to go to Ontario to fight her for this?
I'm so stressed out you cannot imagine.
We have a Consent Corollary Relief Judgment that sets out child support. In it is a clause saying I wasn't to pay the table amount as I had the kids for four years and she never paid me a cent - even though she was ordered to.
I paid that child support (2004) for the remainder of the year.
She moved away, got remarried, etc., and eventually asked me to increase the child support, which I did three different times.
Now, she's back in Canada, crying again over everything, owing Revenue Canada money, etc., etc., and trying to say I owe her back support to 2004 according to the table amounts as well as I now owe her the full table amounts period.
Can she go back and get the back support?
I know I have no hope of not paying her the table amount now - the court is entirely on her side no matter how evil she is, how many times she moved the kids, how many husbands she's had (four), the fact she kicked me out when they were six months old to move her boyfriend in, etc., etc., etc.
The court will just give her her money, table amount (which is completely unreasonable) and I'm screwed.
Do you think she's entitled to back support, too, even though she never asked for it and we have emails to that effect, as well as emails with her asking us for more money and we paid it, etc. Nothing formal, though. we got along for five years - she was thousands of miles away.
Now she's back. She's in Ontario. I'm in Nova Scotia.
I've tried to talk to lawyers but none will answer me, none will just say yes or no, they want tons of details, hours of consultations, etc., etc. and I don't have that kind of money. I drive a truck - and my wife works part-time, her teenager lives with us and we live very simply compared to most - old car, no social life, no smoking, no entertainment, no eating out, etc., etc.
So do you think she'll get her back support if she takes us to court?
Can she force us to go to Ontario to fight her for this?
I'm so stressed out you cannot imagine.
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