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Old 10-07-2015, 08:49 AM
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Much concern still exists about confidentiality when it comes to emails so many places have policies where patient or student information is not to be relayed by email (hospitals, schools etc.). If that is the case with your school perhaps you could simply fax your request to them. Phone them and alert them that you are sending in a letter via fax. Your request is not unreasonable. On the top of your letter put PERSONAL AND CONFIDENTIAL and on the fax cover sheet have the typical blurb about confidentiality. If the school opts to divulge personal and confidential information to someone other than the "party to which it is intended" then I'd have a chat with your school superintendent.
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Old 10-07-2015, 09:11 AM
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Much concern still exists about confidentiality when it comes to emails so many places have policies where patient or student information is not to be relayed by email (hospitals, schools etc.). If that is the case with your school perhaps you could simply fax your request to them. Phone them and alert them that you are sending in a letter via fax. Your request is not unreasonable. On the top of your letter put PERSONAL AND CONFIDENTIAL and on the fax cover sheet have the typical blurb about confidentiality. If the school opts to divulge personal and confidential information to someone other than the "party to which it is intended" then I'd have a chat with your school superintendent.

Lol... You read my mind...this is exactly the approach I thought of while I was just in the shower..

Fax is best... I also thought I'd do the work for them make a Form with the information and just ask them to sign it and fax it back. Make a check box with I have concerns or I have no concerns and a comment section and they can fill it in.

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Old 10-07-2015, 09:40 AM
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Go through the school super intendant or principal. My partners ex was close to the teacher and school secretary and he got nowhere. One call to the super letting them know this was happening and the principal and teacher were playing nice in no time at all.
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Old 10-07-2015, 10:30 AM
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Form is a brilliant idea.

If you think your ex might use a medical excuse then craft a similar letter/fax to family physician.
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Old 10-07-2015, 10:51 AM
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Have a plan.

1 you will e-mail teacher two weeks before leaving requesting any homework that can be done while on vacation. ( did this twice and had nothing sent by teachers)

2 you will contact teacher 3 weeks after return to see if kids are back on track. If kids are behind and as recommended by teacher only, you hire a tutor for 3 sessions each to help them catch up on what was missed.

Again...my kids are not A students and had no issues with getting back on track after 10 days out of school.

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Old 10-07-2015, 03:57 PM
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Do I need a factum for a short motion?

Would it help?
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Old 10-15-2015, 05:58 PM
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Paperwork is all filed for my motion next Tuesday. I believe my ex has to serve me her response today.

Both teachers received the fax but neither would return it to me so I had to submit my affidavit without it.


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Old 10-15-2015, 06:43 PM
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I would bring any proof you ever get to the hearing and even if the teacher verbally says it's ok i would say that
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Old 10-16-2015, 09:04 AM
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So it looks like my ex is sticking with her "I disagree" on her 15b. She failed to serve me any response to my motion.

The only thing she can go on now is rule 14 (17) 3 for which she needs the courts permission.

EVIDENCE ON A MOTION
(17) Evidence on a motion may be given by any one or more of the following methods:

1. An affidavit or other admissible evidence in writing.

2. A transcript of the questions and answers on a questioning under rule 20.

3. With the court’s permission, oral evidence. O. Reg. 114/99, r. 14 (17).


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Old 10-19-2015, 03:16 PM
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Motion is tomorrow morning.

I'm a little nervous since I have no idea how this is going to go. Ex filed no response to the motion. This ads further unknown to the whole thing as I have no idea what she's going to say or do, but that's par for the course for her.

Anyone been through something similar with any advice on being before a judge?
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