I went to my Case Conference on February 22, 2006, even though we didn’t go in front of a judge my Lawyer and my ex’s Lawyer managed to get a court order signed asking for further disclosure, Questioning and information from my employer. I agreed to all of the above. My question is, it has been over one month and no moment as of yet? I went to my Lawyer, she got me to sign a revised statement adding a condo that I had before I got married and sold during the marriage. She feels I can exclude the equity I had in it since I owned it before I got married. I’m sure my ex won’t like that, since were talking about another 60,000.00.
I further asked my Lawyer about the Questioning, her reply was that it’s up to your wife’s Lawyer to arrange the date; it’s to your benefit if it goes on and on. It has been over a year now, we have not settled on anything, I have given her no money other than child support, I still have not started giving her spousal support or for that matter any equalization payment. When I suggested it to my lawyer she told me why would you want to fund her legal fees. She will eventually get what she’s entitled to with interest.
I guess she trying to put her in a position where she will have to take my offer or live they way she’s been living. Barely making ends meet. Mind you that’s they way I’ll be living at the end of all this.
I do see my children every other weekend and one day during the week. I have been fortunate enough to have them for the last week since I have been on holidays; it’s going to be painful to return them today after school. They don’t want to leave me, all they say is a Love you daddy.
I further asked my Lawyer about the Questioning, her reply was that it’s up to your wife’s Lawyer to arrange the date; it’s to your benefit if it goes on and on. It has been over a year now, we have not settled on anything, I have given her no money other than child support, I still have not started giving her spousal support or for that matter any equalization payment. When I suggested it to my lawyer she told me why would you want to fund her legal fees. She will eventually get what she’s entitled to with interest.
I guess she trying to put her in a position where she will have to take my offer or live they way she’s been living. Barely making ends meet. Mind you that’s they way I’ll be living at the end of all this.
I do see my children every other weekend and one day during the week. I have been fortunate enough to have them for the last week since I have been on holidays; it’s going to be painful to return them today after school. They don’t want to leave me, all they say is a Love you daddy.
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