Hello everyone,
About 10 days ago, my husband of 32 years handed me a one page letter letting me know that he wants a seperation. I had just had surgery the day before so I was in no shape at all. I took the letter in my hands and he left without saying a word and left.
Our marriage was far from perfect and to be honest I had often thought of leaving him but I stayed for 2 reasons: our kids and the financial security. They may not have been the best reasons for staying in an unhappy marriage but there it is...I’m just being very honest.
Now, at 55, retired with very little income I have to go through a process that I know so very little about. I feel overwhelmed.
We have talked twice. There is no fighting. He says he wants to be fair but I found out he already has seen a lawyer 2-3 times. He doesn’t sleep here much and I have no idea where he is at night. Is there another woman or does he sleep at a friend’s place? Honestly I don’t care if he is with someone else. I just want out and live a decent life.
I need to find a good French speaking lawyer who won’t be too expensive. Is that even possible?
I’m trying to stay positive and will appreciate every bit of feedback, suggestions and support. I hope to get to know some of you,
About 10 days ago, my husband of 32 years handed me a one page letter letting me know that he wants a seperation. I had just had surgery the day before so I was in no shape at all. I took the letter in my hands and he left without saying a word and left.
Our marriage was far from perfect and to be honest I had often thought of leaving him but I stayed for 2 reasons: our kids and the financial security. They may not have been the best reasons for staying in an unhappy marriage but there it is...I’m just being very honest.
Now, at 55, retired with very little income I have to go through a process that I know so very little about. I feel overwhelmed.
We have talked twice. There is no fighting. He says he wants to be fair but I found out he already has seen a lawyer 2-3 times. He doesn’t sleep here much and I have no idea where he is at night. Is there another woman or does he sleep at a friend’s place? Honestly I don’t care if he is with someone else. I just want out and live a decent life.
I need to find a good French speaking lawyer who won’t be too expensive. Is that even possible?
I’m trying to stay positive and will appreciate every bit of feedback, suggestions and support. I hope to get to know some of you,
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