Grace -- I kinda answered this one in anothe part of the forum but basically my husband is so verbally aggressive and a bully, really, whenever I talk about what I feel is fair and equitable that my lawyer feels it is best to just go to court. I will talk to her about mediation...I suppose I should bring it up with my spouse for the record but he is pretty determined to not give me anything (some of the things he has said:"this is my house not yours", "if you go through lawyers, I will drag this out until your father runs out of money", "you're not taking my kids away from me, if you try I'll take them away for an undisclosed amount of time", "we can just live here together and raise the kids..why don't you just let me lead my own personal life?"....) . NICE EH?
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