Maybe it is time to file the response for my ex and her lawyer to see that my affidavit and proof contradicts every lie stated in hers..maybe then we can get an unreasonable person to be reasonable.
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Originally posted by Tandem80 View PostMaybe it is time to file the response for my ex and her lawyer to see that my affidavit and proof contradicts every lie stated in hers..maybe then we can get an unreasonable person to be reasonable.
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Originally posted by Tandem80 View PostYes she filed a motion for the sports. There was a pike of receipts I never knew existed. It's mainly her wanting money, because her affidavit never said anything about trying to force me to take them to their activities.
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She is devious though she knew eventually having the kids so busy in activities they will be able to decide when they are 12 if they want to come see me or go to their activities. I didn't want to argue over the money so offered to pay for them all and in return set a maximum budget going forward and that the kids come to me on my wkd regardless.
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Originally posted by Tandem80 View PostShe is devious though she knew eventually having the kids so busy in activities they will be able to decide when they are 12 if they want to come see me or go to their activities. I didn't want to argue over the money so offered to pay for them all and in return set a maximum budget going forward and that the kids come to me on my wkd regardless.
I wouldn't let the ex tell me how to spend my time with our child. We'll do whatever the hell we want. I highly doubt that the children would choose their activities over you. I'm sure they miss you lots given your little time they have with you and how prolonged the visits - or rather , parenting times are.
I'm not sure what to say to children in that situation if they are choosing sports over you. Perhaps you could speak to an experienced social worker to help you be able to process such thoughts /concerns with your children ?
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The kids have told me over and over they are more than happy to come see me and miss their sporting activities. When they get older and are not under their mother control (making them feel bad missing their sports to come see me) then they can express their true feelings on the matter. Right now as far as I see it it is done to limit my access and or force me into a schedule I had no say in.
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There you go. THat's what I like to hear. Now go restore your time and have your lawyer persuade the judge to tell the mom to take a hike. Actually, I don't think your lawyer will have to do much talking. A judge will likely tell mom to take a hike. No judge will be happy with what mom has done here.
There should be a book called "what not to do as a sole custodial mom"
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