Ex has asked to extend one of his access weekends. Last week of school the Friday is always a PD day. I have no issues with this extra time. However I do have issue with it if Dad is not off work. How can I make him prove he is off work. SA specifically says his access is to fall on weekends he is not working. He works Fridays. He did say to answer him by this Thursday so he could make accommodations. Would you interpret that as taking the day off work?
He asked for this time back in March and I agreed it was fine if he can prove he is off work. I never heard again about it until last night.
He has breached this term a few times now and I have not made an issue of it however the kids were not happy as they thought the extra time was going to be with dad. He worked on his march break access. Leaving them with gf. And then on a regular access weekend he left them overnight at their grandmas ( not concerned about that as it’s their grandma).
I don’t want to say the wrong thing. Extra access is fine when dad is actually with them. It’s good for the kids. They do not want to be left with gf all day when they could be with mom or their cousins.
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He asked for this time back in March and I agreed it was fine if he can prove he is off work. I never heard again about it until last night.
He has breached this term a few times now and I have not made an issue of it however the kids were not happy as they thought the extra time was going to be with dad. He worked on his march break access. Leaving them with gf. And then on a regular access weekend he left them overnight at their grandmas ( not concerned about that as it’s their grandma).
I don’t want to say the wrong thing. Extra access is fine when dad is actually with them. It’s good for the kids. They do not want to be left with gf all day when they could be with mom or their cousins.
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