Hi everyone and thank you for allowing me to join such an amazing forum. I was introduced to this site from a friend. I wanted to introduce myself, and give you a quick background on the issues I have been facing and hoping to get help , advice—options. HELP
After reading the post by Straittohell –some thoughts for newbies and the veterans – I have shortened my post and took away many details. You can ask questions—I will answer.
I have been separated with my baby’s mother for 3.5-4 years now and we have a 50/50 arrangement. We had a written agreement but she took me to court after that was signed. We have a Friday to Friday arrangement. My ex has many mental illnesses, and I know this because I was the one to get her help- taking her to and from the doctor and paying for treatment/counselling. Over the years there has been small issues that would have our son come home to me and it would take a few days for him to settle. The ex and I tried working things out recently building our family again—but I think her intentions were no true. A few years ago- the ex called CAS and made claims I was beating my son- turned out to be false and case was dropped. More recently she tried to do the same—Called CAS and claimed I was abusing him—AGAIN – the case was dropped as I only used discipline.
So- I know my ex is mentally and emotionally abusing our son- She has called CAS twice that was a false claim or they felt our son was in zero harm.. What can I do. I feel the 50/50 thing isn’t working and should I go for soul custody—I need help here – options—what do I do
After reading the post by Straittohell –some thoughts for newbies and the veterans – I have shortened my post and took away many details. You can ask questions—I will answer.
I have been separated with my baby’s mother for 3.5-4 years now and we have a 50/50 arrangement. We had a written agreement but she took me to court after that was signed. We have a Friday to Friday arrangement. My ex has many mental illnesses, and I know this because I was the one to get her help- taking her to and from the doctor and paying for treatment/counselling. Over the years there has been small issues that would have our son come home to me and it would take a few days for him to settle. The ex and I tried working things out recently building our family again—but I think her intentions were no true. A few years ago- the ex called CAS and made claims I was beating my son- turned out to be false and case was dropped. More recently she tried to do the same—Called CAS and claimed I was abusing him—AGAIN – the case was dropped as I only used discipline.
So- I know my ex is mentally and emotionally abusing our son- She has called CAS twice that was a false claim or they felt our son was in zero harm.. What can I do. I feel the 50/50 thing isn’t working and should I go for soul custody—I need help here – options—what do I do
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