Hi,
New to this awful process of divorce - made the more awful as my STBX is highly unreasonable and I am admittedly far too naive. I have some support but have a specific question which I’m sure I’m not the first to experience.
- she’s had control over the “kids (3) account” which I allowed with the intent of making her feel ‘engaged’. All CCB and any birthday etc money is to go there. Anyhow, she’s blown and/or cash-hoarding 10-20k out of this.
- If withdrawals were done before date of separation can I recover this? Or use it to at least get on low end of SS?
- If withdrawals are between date of separation and today can I take this out of equalization?
- is there an alternate rather than legal request to get complete bank statement (not joint, remember I told you I’m naive)
Having said all this, I feel great even though I should have followed lots of advice and left 3 years ago.
New to this awful process of divorce - made the more awful as my STBX is highly unreasonable and I am admittedly far too naive. I have some support but have a specific question which I’m sure I’m not the first to experience.
- she’s had control over the “kids (3) account” which I allowed with the intent of making her feel ‘engaged’. All CCB and any birthday etc money is to go there. Anyhow, she’s blown and/or cash-hoarding 10-20k out of this.
- If withdrawals were done before date of separation can I recover this? Or use it to at least get on low end of SS?
- If withdrawals are between date of separation and today can I take this out of equalization?
- is there an alternate rather than legal request to get complete bank statement (not joint, remember I told you I’m naive)
Having said all this, I feel great even though I should have followed lots of advice and left 3 years ago.
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