Hey All! I just want some perspective on an issue that's come up with my ex regarding dealing with additional access for the Thanksgiving weekend. We have alternating weekend schedule. Our court order states that for this year, Thanksgiving weekend he gets our son for the whole weekend. No problem. However, it is supposed to be my weekend so I just asked the ex to switch the following weekend so that our son can be with me. If not for this switch, he would have our son for 3 weeks in a row.
He is now refusing and I'm not sure what is the norm. I know for sure, that our son doesn't want to be away from our home for 3 weekends in a row (we live in different towns so he wants to stay home and visit with his friends, stay home with his pets etc.). I want some perspective from all of you before I figure out whether to make an argument - this will come up again I am sure on future holidays - or to "pick another more important battle" -it's only one weekend.
Appreciate any feedback!
He is now refusing and I'm not sure what is the norm. I know for sure, that our son doesn't want to be away from our home for 3 weekends in a row (we live in different towns so he wants to stay home and visit with his friends, stay home with his pets etc.). I want some perspective from all of you before I figure out whether to make an argument - this will come up again I am sure on future holidays - or to "pick another more important battle" -it's only one weekend.
Appreciate any feedback!
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