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  • #61
    toronto_father, give your head a shake. then give it another. You should be thanking the senior posters here that took the time to pull you back to reality. They have done you a favor.

    I have 4 children.. all live with me. know why ? there mother is a nut.

    I eat paleo (similar to keto)... do I make my kids eat paleo. No.

    Fit your convictions and beliefs to the needs of the child. not the needs of the child to your beliefs and convictions.

    now give your head another shake.

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    • #62
      Originally posted by plainNamedDad44 View Post
      toronto_father, give your head a shake. then give it another. You should be thanking the senior posters here that took the time to pull you back to reality. They have done you a favor.

      I have 4 children.. all live with me. know why ? there mother is a nut.

      I eat paleo (similar to keto)... do I make my kids eat paleo. No.

      Fit your convictions and beliefs to the needs of the child. not the needs of the child to your beliefs and convictions.

      now give your head another shake.

      I`m expecting a lot from you....took me 15 years to get to where I am today....




      lets time travel shall we....




      15 years ago I was on LAVA LIFE....back then LAVA LIFE was on the phone chat mainly(it was interesting cause nobody knew what each other looked like)..the internet had not really taken off yet...I was talking to a single mom...We were having a blast..I`m very good at the phone game..can make a lady forget all her troubles..boy we laughed...



      But I have a flaw....im very curious kinda of fellow...I like asking ladies questions and they like answering....



      She told me she had 2 sons....one 5 the other one 7....


      Her oldest son was Autistic...Hey whats autism, I asked?....she explained...I listened...The 7 year old had not spoken in a year...



      to a single guy that likes to talk to women and more...Autism sounded like a real downer to me....


      I was using Yahoo groups at the time(it was huge then, now its forgotten) Yahoo groups is a free site where you can host forums like this.



      I typed in Autism and found a group...that week I read all 23,000 posts on that autism group...something about this autism interested me,,,,maybe its cause the mom sounded hot...I don't know why but I read all those posts....


      end of that week I call mom back....I say to her...I read this forum(didn't say I read all 23,000 posts)....some parents are saying cutting out carbs/sugar is getting them improved behavior...ect...


      I described the basics of the diet these parents were employing...


      roasted chicken and broccoli for lunch ....dinner was cooked meat(not processed) with a veggie with butter on top...


      Breakfast was scrambled eggs fried in butter with cheese as the side...


      She said that was an impossible menu for her son cause he was a sugar addict...I said try it and see what happens...She was skeptical ...but at her witts end....


      I called her back a few days later to chat...and she told me what happened....


      The first day her son would not eat any of the new food she prepared so he basically self fasted the first day...


      The second day he ate a little of the breakfast and some of the lunch....


      But its what happened after lunch that was interesting....


      She recounted.....her 2 sons were playing in their room....the younger son walked over to the older brother and hit him over the head with a toy....the mom scolded the younger brother and yelled at him to leave the room,,,,


      The older autistic brother(who had not spoken in a year) then turns to his mother and says...."no mom its ok"...as in its not that bad dont get mad...


      The mom said she burst into tears....



      back then I didnt want kids.....didnt see the magic of it all...we lost contact.....dont know what ever happened to her and her kids....hope they are doing well...



      I used to work around the corner from sick kids hospital in Toronto back then...one day while visiting with a friend at the hospital I noticed in the lobby that sick kids had a nutritional office...I walked in to that office and asked the nurses on duty if there was a regimen for Autism...they said no....I recounted what I read online from other parents...and what was observed with this laddies son...they said there is no nutritional regime for autism and since its not my kid...why do I care....

      That was 15 years ago....this non-sense needs to be called out....

      15 years have gone by and the doctors still have their fingers in their ears...


      Now its my kid..

      I`m not sitting down...and I`m not shutting up...

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      • #63
        How to call a witness at a motion-judge has cut all access to the child

        Again, your posts are proving without a doubt that you do not have your child’s best interests in mind, you are simply trying to advance your agenda. Not every child is autistic and the medical community (and parent resource groups, autism awareness groups and many other educators/education groups) have come out to say that diagnosing autism is becoming a catch all for behaviour issues when there are no indications the child is on the spectrum. 50 years ago it was hyperactivity. 30 years ago Ritalin was the magic pill. The only thing that makes sense in your rantings is that sugar is bad and THATS NOT NEW OR A CURE ALL. Its almost as bad as saying “i turned the tv off and suddenly my child spoke!” Or “i stopped the processed foods and my kid stopped bouncing off the walls!” Cutting sugar and processed foods out of a diet is good parenting not a medical miracle.

        You can package your crazy with anything you want, you still have to convince a judge and you have failed to do so. Why? Because you are operating in your best interest. You have solved the riddle therefore you are the best. You continue to fail to understand that if you want to see your child then you are going to have to set aside your self righteous attitude.

        If you wanted to “fix” your child then you a) shouldn’t have had a child with someone outside of your city; b) shouldn’t have given up full custody; and, c) toned down the nut job attitude and worked WITH your baby mama rather than what you are doing. You don’t get to control the other parent. I don’t care if you are a world renowned child professional—the judge does not believe you are a good parent. You also don’t share the same postal code which means you cannot parent from afar. Again, if you wanted to control the diet, you should not have put yourself in this situation.

        You are actually an insult to the thousands of other parents fighting for their kids. You are doing a disservice to them.

        Everyone else: please stop feeding this troll. Unless he’s posting his decision for all of us to laugh at, we need to find something else to do.

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        • #64
          delusions of grandeur is all...

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          • #65
            Originally posted by rockscan View Post
            Again, your posts are proving without a doubt that you do not have your child’s best interests in mind, you are simply trying to advance your agenda. Not every child is autistic and the medical community (and parent resource groups, autism awareness groups and many other educators/education groups) have come out to say that diagnosing autism is becoming a catch all for behaviour issues when there are no indications the child is on the spectrum. 50 years ago it was hyperactivity. 30 years ago Ritalin was the magic pill. The only thing that makes sense in your rantings is that sugar is bad and THATS NOT NEW OR A CURE ALL. Its almost as bad as saying “i turned the tv off and suddenly my child spoke!” Or “i stopped the processed foods and my kid stopped bouncing off the walls!” Cutting sugar and processed foods out of a diet is good parenting not a medical miracle.

            You can package your crazy with anything you want, you still have to convince a judge and you have failed to do so. Why? Because you are operating in your best interest. You have solved the riddle therefore you are the best. You continue to fail to understand that if you want to see your child then you are going to have to set aside your self righteous attitude.

            If you wanted to “fix” your child then you a) shouldn’t have had a child with someone outside of your city; b) shouldn’t have given up full custody; and, c) toned down the nut job attitude and worked WITH your baby mama rather than what you are doing. You don’t get to control the other parent. I don’t care if you are a world renowned child professional—the judge does not believe you are a good parent. You also don’t share the same postal code which means you cannot parent from afar. Again, if you wanted to control the diet, you should not have put yourself in this situation.

            You are actually an insult to the thousands of other parents fighting for their kids. You are doing a disservice to them.

            Everyone else: please stop feeding this troll. Unless he’s posting his decision for all of us to laugh at, we need to find something else to do.





            To the reader...you be the judge here.....I`m not calling anyone here crazy....I assume they have kids to raise and were all working towards some greater good....


            read this thread from start to finish....if you disagree then keep stuffing fries and chicken fingers in kids mouths(and I`m sorry for wasting your time)....but if I`m even 1% right....then we got a big problem...and as you can see the children have no friends in the legal or medical fields that are interested in them other then to make a dime off their backs...


            The post Im responding to here shows exactly how every lawyer and doctor feels about these kids and the absolute venomous hatred for anyone trying to escape over the fence from the reservation....


            The rage that I`m facing here...when I`m suggesting parents have access to information to make informed decisions....unless that information is approved by the gate keepers then its not to be known



            They are brutal and ruthless....will say and do anything to make sure no sunlight shines on this....its money were talking about here...so I don't expect anything less from them....







            I have 2 children with autism....one is cured(the one I have access to) the other has autism(diagnosed by a doctor) and huge behavior issues...


            My other child had asthma and that's completely vanished also....


            There is too much good news to write....but my story mimics others as shown in the film "The magic pill"


            There are other links in this thread like "unblind my mind"...ect... a short video every parent should watch


            The only help these kids are going to get is from people that refuse to walk by an injustice....and that's very few of us regrettably


            So I`m asking a lot of the reader...you can see whats waiting for you if you get involved....called crazy....outcast...its like the movie 300...except you're facing the hordes...alone...


            Its a thankless job, look up the Milgram Experiment. This will show you what your up against when talking to people about this. The power of the lab coat and clipboard will get people to do anything. Even against their own children's interests.


            but we only live once....and if there is a being behind all this...even if its a monkey banging on a drum....I can tell that force...that Ive done all sorts of regrettable things that im not proud of....but the one thing I didn't do....was step on the innocent.....

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            • #66
              I take offense at your remarks about doctors. I work for a very dedicated specialist who works 7-days a week. He is not motivated by money I can assure you. The individual I work for has no "venomous hatred" against any patients and does indeed see people from the reserve as well as autistic and developmentally delayed. Patients have varied ethnic/cultural/religious backgrounds. Some people think they have found a "cure" but usually end up back begging for an appointment. Others have diseases which simply go into remission. What works for some patients doesn't always for another.

              What has worked in your situation may be result of many things. Micro-nutrient deficiencies are a possibility but blood tests would be required to scientifically confirm.

              You are not a medical professional. You are a parent. You are obviously frustrated that the other parent of your child will not succumb to your my-way-or-the-highway subscription for treatment. NEWS FLASH: You are not the custodial parent. You do not get to make medical decisions for your child.

              I think the usefulness of this thread has run its course and would therefore ask that the moderators close this thread.

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              • #67
                I would agree, this thread is way off topic and this is not the venue to debate medical cures/treatment etc.

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