Thanks for the comments, especially those that stayed on topic.
I don't think i could handle dating a coworker, I need my space. I love to be with the people I love but I can't see myself working with someone all day and then going home and spending the rest of my time with them too.
It's been over a year and a half and I asked my kids what they thought of me dating. I had already been dating someone for quite a while but hadn't mentioned it to them or brought him around as more than a friend (we were friends for a few years first) and was starting to think it might be time given the length of our relationship and that I'd already met and was fairly close to his kids. My son's reaction was 'whatever makes you happy mom' and a big hug. My daughter's reaction was just to shake her head 'no' and refused to discuss it at all. Now I almost feel guilty for dating given how she feels but I also know I can't let her run my life or I'll likely be single forever, lol.
I don't think i could handle dating a coworker, I need my space. I love to be with the people I love but I can't see myself working with someone all day and then going home and spending the rest of my time with them too.
It's been over a year and a half and I asked my kids what they thought of me dating. I had already been dating someone for quite a while but hadn't mentioned it to them or brought him around as more than a friend (we were friends for a few years first) and was starting to think it might be time given the length of our relationship and that I'd already met and was fairly close to his kids. My son's reaction was 'whatever makes you happy mom' and a big hug. My daughter's reaction was just to shake her head 'no' and refused to discuss it at all. Now I almost feel guilty for dating given how she feels but I also know I can't let her run my life or I'll likely be single forever, lol.
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