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Old 02-26-2014, 04:11 PM
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Oh, come on now - it happened on Law & Order, it must be possible
It happened in real life to a doctor in the US somewhere. The guy and his g/f were on the verge of breaking-up, she knew this. On one of their last dates, she gives him a BJ, saves the sperm and impregnates herself using a turkey baster or something like that.

Here is the article:

http://www.blackmediascoop.com/woman...-get-pregnant/

Here is a link to a guy whose g/f collected sperm from used condoms to get pregnant:

Man Accuses Girlfriend Of Stealing His Sperm To Get Pregnant

Lesson to guys out there and don't want to chance someone doing this to you - watch the condom circle the bowl as it gets flushed....
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Old 02-26-2014, 04:14 PM
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Lesson to guys out there and don't want to chance someone doing this to you - watch the condom circle the bowl as it gets flushed....
Or only hang out with girls who swallow.
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Old 02-26-2014, 04:16 PM
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Or only hang out with girls who swallow.
For years that was my answer!!!
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Old 02-26-2014, 09:45 PM
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No matter how the pregnancy happened, child support is the right of the child. It's just near-impossible to disentangle that from the benefit to a parent who has most or all of the access.

Divorce Source: TOWARD A STRICT LIABILITY THEORY OF PARENTAGE

American, and sometimes out there, but you can see that the judges are trying to do right by the children involved.
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Old 02-26-2014, 11:39 PM
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Supporting the Children /= Child support

Child Support = Supporting the Mom and the Children w/ virtually 0 accountability.

Or Child Support = Giving the Mother money based on the number of common children hoping she spends it on them.

The fallacy that what is the "law" is right is disturbing - it used to be law that men owned the women and children, it used to be the law that women always got custody. We became more civilized and that changed but we're not done yet.

You need to assess the reasons and root causes of why are the way things are to deconstruct and modify or rebuild them so they are fair.

Don't be satisfied with the status quo...

This tongue-in-cheek situation is exactly the sort of thing that is completely unfair to the idiot because and literally like winning the lottery for the prostitute.

Ask somebody a question?
If you could become pregnant by a rich guy and all your needs would be paid for to the point you could live extravagantly till the child turns 25 years old (by then you'll have invested and save enough to live on till retirement) and then live off the savings till you retire would you do it?

The fact that there is a way for somebody to get that benefit at somebody else's expense is an injustice.

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Old 02-27-2014, 12:17 AM
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No matter how the pregnancy happened, child support is the right of the child. It's just near-impossible to disentangle that from the benefit to a parent who has most or all of the access.

Divorce Source: TOWARD A STRICT LIABILITY THEORY OF PARENTAGE

American, and sometimes out there, but you can see that the judges are trying to do right by the children involved.
Ridiculous, a man can be raped and he'd still have to pay child support..... That's crazy.

If there was no child support I bet these things wouldn't happen - that is the problem. For broke ass unmotivated people its too much of an incentive.
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Old 02-27-2014, 01:13 AM
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Ridiculous, a man can be raped and he'd still have to pay child support..... That's crazy.

If there was no child support I bet these things wouldn't happen - that is the problem. For broke ass unmotivated people its too much of an incentive.
Ridiculous! these things would still happen and to make matters worse the CHILDREN involved would end up begging on the streets! Is that the kind of world that you want to live in?

If you're worried about being raped and inpregnating some EVIL unmotivated whatever - get a vasectomy!!!!!
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Ridiculous! these things would still happen and to make matters worse the CHILDREN involved would end up begging on the streets! Is that the kind of world that you want to live in?

If you're worried about being raped and inpregnating some EVIL unmotivated whatever - get a vasectomy!!!!!
What the hell kind of comment is that?!?!

Should then a woman in order to prevent becoming pregnant from rape have her TUBES TIED to prevent the possibility????
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Old 02-27-2014, 09:50 AM
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Seriously there guys - you really think that women are going to rape you to get that coveted sperm in order to impregnate themselves so they get a guaranteed income of $400-800 a month in child support.

How much luxury does that really buy? It doesn't even pay rent in a bachelor apartment of large city.

The conspiracy theory of women using you to get a guaranteed income of less than social assistance is absolutely ridiculous.

Women have been bearing the brunt of men's brutality in the form of rape and unwanted pregnancies for thousands of years. Thousands.

One woman out of how many million finds a way to impregnate themselves without the man's consent and you'd think the whole ceiling fell in on civilization.
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Old 02-27-2014, 11:03 AM
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Men and women have it different. We've had this argument before. Both must endure the consequences of their sexual activity, willing or unwilling. The circumstances and consequences vary by biology and law.

The incidence of women raping men to get pregnant is probably far less than the quantity of women being raped by men and getting pregnant.

The fact that a woman can arrange to get herself pregnant by a rich man and claim a lifetime's worth of income via child support doesn't mitigate the man's responsibility to be cautious with where he puts his sperm.

It's an awkward situation because obviously the woman doesn't deserve the income, but the child does, and if the woman has custody, how can you withold the money from her without also punishing the innocent child?
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