Hi all,
It's been a while since I've logged in. Just as an update- the OCL took our case. We've had our initial intakes and I have completed the in-home observation. I think it's going well? We'll see. We probably won't have our disclosure meeting until October or November, after my ex has completed his PAR course and maybe we've tried co-parent counseling.
I want to give mediation another go (with a male mediator ). I would like to offer Joint Custody with final say to me...the idea is that I completely agree that ex should be involved in the day to day decision making that affects our daughter...what I don't want is a fight about everything- and him to use this as a way to create conflict (which is his M.O.).
Do any of you have this arrangement? How does it work for you?
It's been a while since I've logged in. Just as an update- the OCL took our case. We've had our initial intakes and I have completed the in-home observation. I think it's going well? We'll see. We probably won't have our disclosure meeting until October or November, after my ex has completed his PAR course and maybe we've tried co-parent counseling.
I want to give mediation another go (with a male mediator ). I would like to offer Joint Custody with final say to me...the idea is that I completely agree that ex should be involved in the day to day decision making that affects our daughter...what I don't want is a fight about everything- and him to use this as a way to create conflict (which is his M.O.).
Do any of you have this arrangement? How does it work for you?
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