So my ex has asked for my permission to see a therapist.
He has had temper tantrum issues but he has improved a lot at Montessorri school and at home. He doesn’t have his meltdowns and noticed he has really matured since last year as even noted by his teachers at school.
My concern is she is rehasing the child abuse allegations as she had reported it to the Police and they closed the file as it wasn't credible, I have the police report that confirmed this.
So to confirm if this is actual relevant issues, as she has mentioned prior that if the cops don't believe her, then I'll get a therapist to believe me.
I asked her in email how he behaving at your household that requires therapy and what do you expect it to resolve as I would like to know as this is a two way street in terms of parenting and it’s best interests of him to have two involved parents equally invested in his wellbeing.
We've been told by multiple therapists that cooperation from both parents is neccessary as we can apply lessons from the therapist into both homes to provide consistency.
Her response was nothing, and "it's been a rough few years" and I will talk to therapist about my concerns to them only.
My stance right now is, no I'm not giving you my consent if you are not being open about what it is that concerns him which is not in his best interest
Is it reasonable for me to say no, if she refuses to explain.
He has had temper tantrum issues but he has improved a lot at Montessorri school and at home. He doesn’t have his meltdowns and noticed he has really matured since last year as even noted by his teachers at school.
My concern is she is rehasing the child abuse allegations as she had reported it to the Police and they closed the file as it wasn't credible, I have the police report that confirmed this.
So to confirm if this is actual relevant issues, as she has mentioned prior that if the cops don't believe her, then I'll get a therapist to believe me.
I asked her in email how he behaving at your household that requires therapy and what do you expect it to resolve as I would like to know as this is a two way street in terms of parenting and it’s best interests of him to have two involved parents equally invested in his wellbeing.
We've been told by multiple therapists that cooperation from both parents is neccessary as we can apply lessons from the therapist into both homes to provide consistency.
Her response was nothing, and "it's been a rough few years" and I will talk to therapist about my concerns to them only.
My stance right now is, no I'm not giving you my consent if you are not being open about what it is that concerns him which is not in his best interest
Is it reasonable for me to say no, if she refuses to explain.
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