Originally posted by sufferer
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IF you decide its not repairable it won't be, because you are already deciding in your own mind that it will not work if you had a positive attitude and worked toward reconciliation you might find that you end up with a stronger marriage then you did when you first married. Sometimes what you think is what happens it all depends on your mindset. Love is a choice not a feeling. If we all went by our feelings we would have some roller Coaster life. I think that if every person were to focus on what they are doing to contribute to a better marriage then maybe we would see less divorce it only starts with one person loosing their pride and choosing to love through the difficult times. True love endures hardship, and true love is not selfish but selfless the best marriage is when both people can become selfless, the one meets the needs of the other and both are then happy but if just one partner chose to meet the needs of the other then maybe just maybe the other person would follow suit? Sometimes the only person we can change is ourselves.
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