lets make this short
have joint custody with ex of our 6 year old boy, i am the primiary caregiver, dad gets him three weekends out of four and (supposed to) wednesdays from 5-7pm and Sunday overnights with his weekends if he is available to prepare our son for school the next day NOT his mother (which he doesnt do anyways)
i have many job offers in the new province, where i live right now we rely on forestry industry and have seen unreasonable downfalls in community that everyone is leaving, my job is no longer secure either and took already a 50% paycut and will have to face bankruptcy soon.
My son needs counselling to determine a learing disability and no counsellors available in my small community, other province there is one right in the school for kids
many more reacreation activities that are not available here as well as a multi-cultured environment which is not the case where i live now.
i have a new boyfriend in this province for last 5 months and has much to offer both of us.
father got more time in our joint custody battle to spend with our son and isnt even taking advantage of it missing quite a few scheduled visit without even calling or excusing himself, our son is devestated when he doesnt show.
has also been playing head games with our son and is living at his moms
His mother has an extensive criminal record and i know nothing about her new boyfriend living in the same dwelling also
Dad never calls to talk with our son.
When he does have son he does play with him but returns him completely burned out of his weekend with less than desirable hygiene and has skipped meals. Dads only gonna deny this i know.
Dad works on shift work and cant be available to prepare our son for school in the morning and care for him at all when on night shifts.
I need advise on how to go about with this i have done extensive research on the new community i am looking to relocate in.
have joint custody with ex of our 6 year old boy, i am the primiary caregiver, dad gets him three weekends out of four and (supposed to) wednesdays from 5-7pm and Sunday overnights with his weekends if he is available to prepare our son for school the next day NOT his mother (which he doesnt do anyways)
i have many job offers in the new province, where i live right now we rely on forestry industry and have seen unreasonable downfalls in community that everyone is leaving, my job is no longer secure either and took already a 50% paycut and will have to face bankruptcy soon.
My son needs counselling to determine a learing disability and no counsellors available in my small community, other province there is one right in the school for kids
many more reacreation activities that are not available here as well as a multi-cultured environment which is not the case where i live now.
i have a new boyfriend in this province for last 5 months and has much to offer both of us.
father got more time in our joint custody battle to spend with our son and isnt even taking advantage of it missing quite a few scheduled visit without even calling or excusing himself, our son is devestated when he doesnt show.
has also been playing head games with our son and is living at his moms
His mother has an extensive criminal record and i know nothing about her new boyfriend living in the same dwelling also
Dad never calls to talk with our son.
When he does have son he does play with him but returns him completely burned out of his weekend with less than desirable hygiene and has skipped meals. Dads only gonna deny this i know.
Dad works on shift work and cant be available to prepare our son for school in the morning and care for him at all when on night shifts.
I need advise on how to go about with this i have done extensive research on the new community i am looking to relocate in.
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