Been a while since i have posted here looking for advice, for i was hoping that my ex and i could come to some sort of agreement. Boy was i wrong yet again.
We agreed to put the past behind us for the best interest of the girls, and he would encourage them to call me once a week, and to write letters and send pics to me. He supposedly sent a parcel with pics and letters from the girls which i still haven't seend and the girls have called me ONCE!! Also he asked me to send him my three copies of our homemade separation agreement in return he would file for the divorce simply as an uncontested one. Well I didn't feel that it was right that i sent him my three copies for they are the only thing that i have left showing that i didn't just get up and walk out one day, so i sent him two orignals and a photocopy and told him that i would send him the other orignal when he sent the papers for the uncontested divorce. Well all hell has broken loose and he was mad about the idea and now states that if i even file for the divorce myself he will contest it. I really don't understand him, I mean we are both living with new partners, and his new partner is pregnant so why contest a divorce from me? We have been legally separtated now for a year and i just want this nightmare over with. All i ask is that i get to visitation of my girls and that they keep in contact with me as well. For the last year aside from the one phone call that they have made to me, any contact with them has been from me calling them.
Do i have any rights to getting this done with out there being a huge court battle over just getting the divorce? IF he was to contest my petition to the courts for a divorce what is the process that it goes through?
flustered_unenlightened
We agreed to put the past behind us for the best interest of the girls, and he would encourage them to call me once a week, and to write letters and send pics to me. He supposedly sent a parcel with pics and letters from the girls which i still haven't seend and the girls have called me ONCE!! Also he asked me to send him my three copies of our homemade separation agreement in return he would file for the divorce simply as an uncontested one. Well I didn't feel that it was right that i sent him my three copies for they are the only thing that i have left showing that i didn't just get up and walk out one day, so i sent him two orignals and a photocopy and told him that i would send him the other orignal when he sent the papers for the uncontested divorce. Well all hell has broken loose and he was mad about the idea and now states that if i even file for the divorce myself he will contest it. I really don't understand him, I mean we are both living with new partners, and his new partner is pregnant so why contest a divorce from me? We have been legally separtated now for a year and i just want this nightmare over with. All i ask is that i get to visitation of my girls and that they keep in contact with me as well. For the last year aside from the one phone call that they have made to me, any contact with them has been from me calling them.
Do i have any rights to getting this done with out there being a huge court battle over just getting the divorce? IF he was to contest my petition to the courts for a divorce what is the process that it goes through?
flustered_unenlightened
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