The father of my 2 daughters was given sole custody in a final order. I brought a motion to change and it's been ongoing for 2 1/2 years. He has a common law spouse who my children began calling "mom" years ago.
My daughters show every symptom of severe parental alienation syndrome but children's aid and the children's lawyer claim they don't see it. My 14 year old has been refusing access visits and my 10 year old follows her sister's lead.
I am self represented. We are scheduled for a long Motion on October 4th and a Trial Management Conference on October 8th.
My ex passed away suddenly on September 18th. My daughters are presumably with his girlfriend. I don't know for sure because I have not heard from his family.
His lawyer served me with a new affidavit for the motion just a little over 24 hours after his death but did not mention his passing. The affidavit was related to the Motion they brought to ask to terminate access or for access to be supervised. They want to terminate access because my oldest doesn't want to see me and claim my youngest is afraid to be with me without her older sister. I have a 4 year old daughter, their sister, from my current relationship of over 6 years. CAS has investigated reports of abuse against her by her father and I and reports of constant yelling and name calling when my daughters are here. None of these allegations have been substantiated because they are absolutely not true! There is no reason for supervised access and the only reason they have been able to give is that the girls would be comfortable. My opinion is that it would be the total opposite and nobody at all would be comfortable in a small room being observed. When they would come for visits we had fun but their father and girlfriend claim that they say they sit in a room alone and color and nobody talks to them. Again, completely false. The false allegations against my current partner and I are too many to list.
I have attempted to contact lawyers in my area for advice and have not had my calls returned.
I emailed his lawyer asking who currently has custody of our children and she has not responded either.
My ex's girlfriend has been telling people that his wishes were for our daughters to be raised in their home and says she's not going anywhere.
I know he did not have a will because I was told by the person he was with when he passed and who also informed his girlfriend of what happened that the very first thing his girlfriend said was "He didn't have a will, I'm going to lose everything". (My first words were "where are my daughters? I need to get to them"
So my question is WHAT DO I DO? I obviously want my daughters but I also don't want to hurt them any more than they have been. I don't want them with his girlfriend as all signs point to her being the mastermind behind the alienation. She has also made statements in the oast that if they ever split up she's taking the girls with her. This woman terrifies me because I believe she'd hurt my girls if she's backed into a corner and thinks she's about to lose them. I've expressed this to many involved in our case in the past but it has always been brushed off.
Help! I want my babies...I want to hold them and comfort them...they lost their daddy and they need their mommy!
My daughters show every symptom of severe parental alienation syndrome but children's aid and the children's lawyer claim they don't see it. My 14 year old has been refusing access visits and my 10 year old follows her sister's lead.
I am self represented. We are scheduled for a long Motion on October 4th and a Trial Management Conference on October 8th.
My ex passed away suddenly on September 18th. My daughters are presumably with his girlfriend. I don't know for sure because I have not heard from his family.
His lawyer served me with a new affidavit for the motion just a little over 24 hours after his death but did not mention his passing. The affidavit was related to the Motion they brought to ask to terminate access or for access to be supervised. They want to terminate access because my oldest doesn't want to see me and claim my youngest is afraid to be with me without her older sister. I have a 4 year old daughter, their sister, from my current relationship of over 6 years. CAS has investigated reports of abuse against her by her father and I and reports of constant yelling and name calling when my daughters are here. None of these allegations have been substantiated because they are absolutely not true! There is no reason for supervised access and the only reason they have been able to give is that the girls would be comfortable. My opinion is that it would be the total opposite and nobody at all would be comfortable in a small room being observed. When they would come for visits we had fun but their father and girlfriend claim that they say they sit in a room alone and color and nobody talks to them. Again, completely false. The false allegations against my current partner and I are too many to list.
I have attempted to contact lawyers in my area for advice and have not had my calls returned.
I emailed his lawyer asking who currently has custody of our children and she has not responded either.
My ex's girlfriend has been telling people that his wishes were for our daughters to be raised in their home and says she's not going anywhere.
I know he did not have a will because I was told by the person he was with when he passed and who also informed his girlfriend of what happened that the very first thing his girlfriend said was "He didn't have a will, I'm going to lose everything". (My first words were "where are my daughters? I need to get to them"
So my question is WHAT DO I DO? I obviously want my daughters but I also don't want to hurt them any more than they have been. I don't want them with his girlfriend as all signs point to her being the mastermind behind the alienation. She has also made statements in the oast that if they ever split up she's taking the girls with her. This woman terrifies me because I believe she'd hurt my girls if she's backed into a corner and thinks she's about to lose them. I've expressed this to many involved in our case in the past but it has always been brushed off.
Help! I want my babies...I want to hold them and comfort them...they lost their daddy and they need their mommy!
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