Ok so I have a bit of a dilemma.
The court has ordered specified access on Sundays from 12:30 - 3:30. This is just while the child psychologist does some work to determine a more regular schedule of reintegration.
So, ex has started dropping our son off a half hour late and then she calls midway through the visit and tells my father that she needs a couple of more hours before my father drops him back to her. I am happy to have the extra time with my son but I am very wary about straying outside of the court ordered time. Due to the high conflict nature of our divorce and the endless BS she keeps pulling, I am terrified to stay any longer than 3:30 for fear that the police will show up at the door! Consdiering the amount of lies and other stuff she has pulled since our separation, I am nervous that she is going to do something like that. What should I do here? I'd love to have more time with him but I can't help but feel as though I'm being set up for something. Not to mention that I am on call with my job and if I don't know in advance of her intentions to leave him longer, then I cannot make the necessary arrangements to take time off outside of the time indicated in the court order.
Can a consent order be created between my lawyer and her's to make the time on sunday longer and simply have it registered with the court without actually going into the court room? Is this something that can be done in a more informal fashion within a week or so?
Any input would be greatly appreciated!
Serrona
The court has ordered specified access on Sundays from 12:30 - 3:30. This is just while the child psychologist does some work to determine a more regular schedule of reintegration.
So, ex has started dropping our son off a half hour late and then she calls midway through the visit and tells my father that she needs a couple of more hours before my father drops him back to her. I am happy to have the extra time with my son but I am very wary about straying outside of the court ordered time. Due to the high conflict nature of our divorce and the endless BS she keeps pulling, I am terrified to stay any longer than 3:30 for fear that the police will show up at the door! Consdiering the amount of lies and other stuff she has pulled since our separation, I am nervous that she is going to do something like that. What should I do here? I'd love to have more time with him but I can't help but feel as though I'm being set up for something. Not to mention that I am on call with my job and if I don't know in advance of her intentions to leave him longer, then I cannot make the necessary arrangements to take time off outside of the time indicated in the court order.
Can a consent order be created between my lawyer and her's to make the time on sunday longer and simply have it registered with the court without actually going into the court room? Is this something that can be done in a more informal fashion within a week or so?
Any input would be greatly appreciated!
Serrona
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