Hi All
I am in need of some advice. My ex wife is a teacher with normal july and august off. Our two boys are 4 and 19 months and are in full time daycare from sept to june. My ex has decided to teach summer school for 4 weeks starting in july. she has emailed me suggestions about daycare options for the boys - ranging from our normal daycare provider to someone new at her home. My financee and I had a baby in december and she is off on mat leave. she also has kids of her own. when i have my two sons they currently spend time with their half brother and step siblings. I want to suggest to my ex that my two boys come to my house and spend the time they would need to be in daycare in the summer with their step siblings and half brother (and future step mom). I have a feeling that my ex will reject this idea based on her personal feelings about my financee. My question is, if she rejects this option am obligated to just agree with whatever she wants and am i obligated to split the cost? I feel that it makes sense for my boys to be with family and i dont think that just because my ex doesnt like it i should be forced to agree and pay.
Anyone have any insight? We share joint custody.
Thanks so much.
I am in need of some advice. My ex wife is a teacher with normal july and august off. Our two boys are 4 and 19 months and are in full time daycare from sept to june. My ex has decided to teach summer school for 4 weeks starting in july. she has emailed me suggestions about daycare options for the boys - ranging from our normal daycare provider to someone new at her home. My financee and I had a baby in december and she is off on mat leave. she also has kids of her own. when i have my two sons they currently spend time with their half brother and step siblings. I want to suggest to my ex that my two boys come to my house and spend the time they would need to be in daycare in the summer with their step siblings and half brother (and future step mom). I have a feeling that my ex will reject this idea based on her personal feelings about my financee. My question is, if she rejects this option am obligated to just agree with whatever she wants and am i obligated to split the cost? I feel that it makes sense for my boys to be with family and i dont think that just because my ex doesnt like it i should be forced to agree and pay.
Anyone have any insight? We share joint custody.
Thanks so much.
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