We have an outstanding RESP issue at hand.
We stand to lose everything as of Thursday March 22nd. (So I've only got till Wednesday to have this resolveD)
Both of us were paying into the plan and it became inactive because ex defaulted on payments and (i couldn't afford to pay this plus Section 7 expenses).
We are in a situation where there are 3 options - 2 (which I suggested) in which our child will benefit and at maturity (over a period of 4 years) will gain $ 60K for herr educational plans and the 1 option (which he suggested) in which our child stands to lose 35K if we go with his options. (he doesn't want to pay into the plan and convert it into a lump sum payment).
We are at an impasse.
I have told him I will not sign his Option, and I've urged him to go with either of the 2 options that I've said
1) pay the full defaulted amount (and deduct what he owes me for section 7 expenses) and continue with both of us splitting the monthly payments OR
2) we get the cash value of the RESP and then I buy him out of his share and then I would then continue to pay to the plan on my own.
He refuses to respond.
Both of my options give our child the best investment.
Is this something that can be brought forth in an emergency motion, and when does the NEwmarket courts hear those motions.
Can the judge make rulings on these matters as they pertain to our child being the beneficiary.
I was just recommended by the OCL that I was to get sole custody. I'm just waiting for the paperwork.
I need help, because if we don't resolve this - as of Thursday March 22nd - our child gets $ 0
I can't believe what a vindictive person would go to such lengths to get back at someone and in the process make decisions that will affect our child's educational future.
I need some help please. Thanks.
We stand to lose everything as of Thursday March 22nd. (So I've only got till Wednesday to have this resolveD)
Both of us were paying into the plan and it became inactive because ex defaulted on payments and (i couldn't afford to pay this plus Section 7 expenses).
We are in a situation where there are 3 options - 2 (which I suggested) in which our child will benefit and at maturity (over a period of 4 years) will gain $ 60K for herr educational plans and the 1 option (which he suggested) in which our child stands to lose 35K if we go with his options. (he doesn't want to pay into the plan and convert it into a lump sum payment).
We are at an impasse.
I have told him I will not sign his Option, and I've urged him to go with either of the 2 options that I've said
1) pay the full defaulted amount (and deduct what he owes me for section 7 expenses) and continue with both of us splitting the monthly payments OR
2) we get the cash value of the RESP and then I buy him out of his share and then I would then continue to pay to the plan on my own.
He refuses to respond.
Both of my options give our child the best investment.
Is this something that can be brought forth in an emergency motion, and when does the NEwmarket courts hear those motions.
Can the judge make rulings on these matters as they pertain to our child being the beneficiary.
I was just recommended by the OCL that I was to get sole custody. I'm just waiting for the paperwork.
I need help, because if we don't resolve this - as of Thursday March 22nd - our child gets $ 0
I can't believe what a vindictive person would go to such lengths to get back at someone and in the process make decisions that will affect our child's educational future.
I need some help please. Thanks.
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