So just a quick update. The written offer I received from the other side was bullshit. I waited 3 months since mediation to finally get something. The lawyer is a piece of work. You may recall I wrote in an earlier post what we had discussed and was close to reaching an agreement. Instead the lawyer not only back tracked but ADDED that I give $80,000 in retro spousal. We had not discussed any retro spousal. This is a non starter for me. By the time I add up the spousal lump sum to shut them up for 6 years and now add the retro, it washes out the child support he owes completely! This heartless lawyer just won't stop and is clearly acting in bad faith going back on his word. I wish him every bad karma. Looks like I'm heading to trial. More effen money!!!