Originally posted by nofrills
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You are at 42%, that is pretty close to being under 40%. Some judges calculate time in wonky ways that can easily put you under 40% (eg. assign all school hours to parent who spends more time with the kids).
You are not guaranteed offset at all.
When I go into mediation, I'm happy with no change in schedule but I'm going to re-propose 2255 schedule or week on week off.
Ask her what she thinks the pros and cons are of each schedule, and which would be her top 3. The point is to move away from the discussion of whether 50% is correct, to what form the 50% will take.
I'm hoping the mediators can convince the ex it's better for everyone so that we both get full weekends and our share of weekdays.
I think because the ideas come from me she won't listen to them.
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