Ok, so now that I have absorbed the entire debt from the joint line of credit that he jacked and he will not pay me the other sums of money he personally owes me, not to mention he is paying nothing to live here....I have yet again asked him to leave and he refuses! What do I do now?
I am concerned that if I simply change the locks and refuse him entry - he will get angry, and destroy property around the home (ie - pool, my car, items in the back yard etc).
He has posessions in the house that I cannot remove by myself (large furniture items and things like a snowblower). I do not want it perceived that I have intent on keeping these items, nor do i want it perceived that I am keeping him away from his child, however I am concerned of his drinking while with her - his DUI charge occured with his other daughter from his previous marriage in the car at the time. It has been suggested that I call the police beforehand to advise them of the potential situation about to arise,if I change the locks , how do I ensure that my position looks like I intend - that he has stuff he "owns", or that I agree he has ownership of, regardles if these items are still here and that i do not intend to keep him from seeing his daughter....advice is badly needed
I am concerned that if I simply change the locks and refuse him entry - he will get angry, and destroy property around the home (ie - pool, my car, items in the back yard etc).
He has posessions in the house that I cannot remove by myself (large furniture items and things like a snowblower). I do not want it perceived that I have intent on keeping these items, nor do i want it perceived that I am keeping him away from his child, however I am concerned of his drinking while with her - his DUI charge occured with his other daughter from his previous marriage in the car at the time. It has been suggested that I call the police beforehand to advise them of the potential situation about to arise,if I change the locks , how do I ensure that my position looks like I intend - that he has stuff he "owns", or that I agree he has ownership of, regardles if these items are still here and that i do not intend to keep him from seeing his daughter....advice is badly needed
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