Originally posted by Berner_Faith
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I'm not totally convinced that Mom can chose the email address from which she sends/receives communication concerning the children. If the father explicitly says, in writing, "please send all email to newbitchathome@gmail.com", then go ahead and send all email to newbitchathome@gmail.com. Why not? Father has made that parenting choice.
Similarly for receiving messages. If father says, in writing, that he will be sending messages from newbitchathome@gmail.com, then that is his choice.
Now, if Dad says "You have to communicate with my new wife", then it is reasonable to respond "unfortunately, she was not a party to our separation agreement and has no custody rights or obligations with regard to our children. I can only discuss the children with you directly. Which address will you personally be sending and receiving email? Would you prefer to use our family wizard?"
If he gives newbitchathome@gmail.com, then so be it. If he repeats that his new wife will be handling it, repeat previous paragraph.
"As I said in my email of December 3rd, 2018: unfortunately, she was not a party to our separation agreement and has no custody rights or obligations with regard to our children. I can only discuss the children with you directly. Which address will you personally be sending and receiving email? Would you prefer to use our family wizard?"
...and when new wife responds...
"As I said in my email of December 3rd, 2018: unfortunately, Bertha was not a party to our separation agreement and has no custody rights or obligations with regard to our children. I can only discuss the children with you directly. Which address will you personally be sending and receiving email? Would you prefer to use our family wizard?"
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