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What I am saying is that we just got into a separation agreement and she has already been hinting at wanting to make changes to it to weasel out of ever reaching 50/50. She will file for a change to the agreement when she decides she does not want to enter further stages of the graduated steps.
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She will have to demonstrate a material change which will not be easy to do.
Take a deep breath, remember you are dealing with a difficult person and remember your child. Whenever she tries to change something you remind her of the agreement, what it allows you and then either ignore or politely decline her change. |
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If she picks up the kids during his time, he can react at that point. He has subsequently indicated that he is more worried that she might change the agreement, which as rockscan pointed out, would be very difficult. I think he is getting himself worked up over nothing. He has 50-50, it isn't changing. |
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Most separated parents talk TOO MUCh about their children. The most successful 50-50 parents talk very little with each other. Over-communication leads to conflict. |
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Is there any guideline or list of things that present a "material change". My ex is very opinionated and would even file because "they strongly feel its better their way". |
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What really gets me is the legal fees the other side makes you burn to defend something that will most likely go nowhere. Why does it have to cost so much money?? So much aggravation and only the lawyers win. Divorcing a high conflict dysfunctional spouse is bad enough as it is. Add how it will drain your bank account so that you may never recover financially when its all done... Because they eventually resurface for more and it never really my ends. It's like waiting for the other shoe to drop for the rest of your life. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Stay strong and limit your contact with her.
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Knowing how disfunctional she is, she will try to weasel out of 50/50 at some point, with a non-sensical rationale that she feels strongly about. When the time comes, I will hold up a chart of all the PD days that I requested to spend time with our kids, and she said "nope" to demonstrate how she fails to promote the relationship between dad and kids. |
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