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Divorce Support This forum is for discussing the emotional aspects of divorce: stress, anger, betrayal of trust and more.

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Old 09-07-2019, 08:24 PM
Helpmyspouse Helpmyspouse is offline
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I mourned the loss of the man I married, high school sweet hearts. He is overcome with psychosis and he is no longer the man I married. It's like he has died except worse as there is no real closure like death. Even more I also mourned the loss of my children's father. He loved our kids, was very hands on. He is no longer the father they remember. If he would only comply with needs our family could have stood a chance. I'm sorry for what you are going through and I can completely relate. Focus on yourself and kids. Stay strong and stay safe.
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Old 09-08-2019, 08:33 AM
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I think we all mourn what we thought once would be... I never imagined being divorced. Then when we did separate we promised to be friends and put the kids first. And for the most part we did for almost 3 years. My ex came over to bday parties and fireworks still with my family and partner. And the kids loved it. So when he got the gf..: it was almost like another blow.... not that he has a gf... I was quite happy for him after seeing him alone for 3 years... and he even had asked me a few times for advice... and I just said think about where we went wrong and try not to repeat it. And me being naive, thought great now there is one more person to help and love our kids... that is how it should be anyways, well boy was I wrong... it didnít turn out that way at all... and I again mourned the after divorce relationship we had. At least the once friendliness that still existed for the kids... the kids mourned it too with all sorts of questions about why daddy is acting different. Not coming to the door. Why is the gf ALWAYS with daddy... why do we have to do what the gf wants to do and her kids and never what we want... why doesnít daddy stand and talk to you anymore... I just kept saying I am not sure but we both still love you and that will never change.

Take time for you... be alone. Get used to it for a bit. Take care of yourself and your kids... they need a healthy momma. Hugs


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Old 09-10-2019, 02:17 PM
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He's already on dating apps
You wanted a divorce, didn't you?

When you are unhappy with an employee and plan on getting rid of them, you don't except them to just sit there and not seek opportunities with other companies now do you?
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Old 09-12-2019, 04:00 PM
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As hard as it is, at least it further supports your need to change and end the relationship. I found out my ex was on 3 different dating websites as a 40 year old man looking for anything while were still married with two little kids. I stayed in the marriage for another 12 months but should have ended it that very minute. When I did finally end it, I had no regrets and was sure it was over.
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