My wife left me and went to a shelter with my kids. We had argument but no physical fight. No police call either. The shelter acts preventively when there is ground for psychological abuse.
I believe that is a fraud because from Day-1 until several years later .., most women psychologically abuse their man (almost everyday).
"You stink after sport, You snore, You earn less than your friend, your friends have a bigger house than us, Why your friend got promoted and you're ?, you d##k is too big its hurt, Your d##k is too small I cannot feel it , etc". And everybody find that normal while the opposite is an offence. Well, in my case, I have pretty good replies.
So back to the question, did I psychologically abuse her? Well judge by yourself:
[She] I will stab you and kill you.
[Me] My ghost bloody corpse will hunt you until you get crazy.
[She] You are nothing, a zero, an idiot...
[Me] Woman always marry men that they think are more valuable than themselves
[She] Get out from the house
[Me] I am the one paying the mortgage
... and so on and so forth.
Anyway, I refused to move out and stay washing/cleaning/cooking for myself until few weeks back I came home and found a note: She has left !
Classic story, not quite !
Honestly, I am not that great, I had an affair and confess to my wife.
She said it is OK , as long as I do not do it again. I respect that and complied.
Then came her friends...
What? Are you nut? He disrespected you, He .... ( Of course they are all single), Just leave him... and so she did.
Now, I miss my children but I am nearly broke financially. I cannot afford a lawyer until I know what I am fighting for. I believe my case is pretty bad. I am OK for the divorce, I am OK to share the assets as long as my kids are also the beneficiaries but I want to see my kids at least the week-ends...
So far, I can only wait so many months before they allow me visitations, I think I am still their father right?
How long a shelter can keep my kids legally without allowing me visitation?
PS: I went to the police and the policewoman said: "Mr there is a complain and an investigation pending against you but I cannot reveal what investigation nor who filled a complain."
So I am waiting, waiting, waiting and waiting....
I believe that is a fraud because from Day-1 until several years later .., most women psychologically abuse their man (almost everyday).
"You stink after sport, You snore, You earn less than your friend, your friends have a bigger house than us, Why your friend got promoted and you're ?, you d##k is too big its hurt, Your d##k is too small I cannot feel it , etc". And everybody find that normal while the opposite is an offence. Well, in my case, I have pretty good replies.
So back to the question, did I psychologically abuse her? Well judge by yourself:
[She] I will stab you and kill you.
[Me] My ghost bloody corpse will hunt you until you get crazy.
[She] You are nothing, a zero, an idiot...
[Me] Woman always marry men that they think are more valuable than themselves
[She] Get out from the house
[Me] I am the one paying the mortgage
... and so on and so forth.
Anyway, I refused to move out and stay washing/cleaning/cooking for myself until few weeks back I came home and found a note: She has left !
Classic story, not quite !
Honestly, I am not that great, I had an affair and confess to my wife.
She said it is OK , as long as I do not do it again. I respect that and complied.
Then came her friends...
What? Are you nut? He disrespected you, He .... ( Of course they are all single), Just leave him... and so she did.
Now, I miss my children but I am nearly broke financially. I cannot afford a lawyer until I know what I am fighting for. I believe my case is pretty bad. I am OK for the divorce, I am OK to share the assets as long as my kids are also the beneficiaries but I want to see my kids at least the week-ends...
So far, I can only wait so many months before they allow me visitations, I think I am still their father right?
How long a shelter can keep my kids legally without allowing me visitation?
PS: I went to the police and the policewoman said: "Mr there is a complain and an investigation pending against you but I cannot reveal what investigation nor who filled a complain."
So I am waiting, waiting, waiting and waiting....
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