Glad that we are back on track with this post
The concept of spiritual divorce is all about forgiveness for our own sakes. My ex's dickieness and douchebaggerie will probably never change - only my reaction to it will. I'm half way there, I don't wish him harm and I would not refuse basic help he was in an emergency ... but that's the most I could muster. Some things are unforgivable regardless of how long ago they happened.
The only certainty is that I could never trust him or have any kind of respect towards him again - that bridge was burned a long time ago.
The concept of spiritual divorce is all about forgiveness for our own sakes. My ex's dickieness and douchebaggerie will probably never change - only my reaction to it will. I'm half way there, I don't wish him harm and I would not refuse basic help he was in an emergency ... but that's the most I could muster. Some things are unforgivable regardless of how long ago they happened.
The only certainty is that I could never trust him or have any kind of respect towards him again - that bridge was burned a long time ago.
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