So - after last week's ultimatums and me planning on leaving this week (Half of my things are packed), she's now decided that she wants to wait for children, that she was wrong to threaten divorce... and that the pain I feel is her fault (for repeated violation of the threats of divorce).
She wrote out her thoughts in a page and a half letter last night - including accepting responsibility for her actions and listing off (most of) her faults. I've never (in our near 6 years together) seen her be this true with herself. Or me. She's making the same promises she made before, though: No more blaming me, no more threats of divorce and so on.
Not sure yet what my plan is. But I thought I'd update people following along.
She wrote out her thoughts in a page and a half letter last night - including accepting responsibility for her actions and listing off (most of) her faults. I've never (in our near 6 years together) seen her be this true with herself. Or me. She's making the same promises she made before, though: No more blaming me, no more threats of divorce and so on.
Not sure yet what my plan is. But I thought I'd update people following along.
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