So, here's my story.
Living with a guy on and off for about 13 years.
Facts:
I'm divorced
No kids (adult, mine)
Dog (no, an actual dog, not referring to the guy....yet..lol)
All bills, mortgage and any and all paper trail in my name and paid 100% by me, as well as the debts (PLC)
No joint anything.
His story:
Walks the dog and "babysits" when I have to go out of town.
Does laundry for about the last year 75% of the time.
No job, rarely works. In 13 years maybe 24 months total.
Keeps my couch warm, 100% of the time.
All ID has another address (not my house).
Before y'all say I'm just plain stupid (I know), I need some advice. I was divorced many years ago with no problems except I got custody of the debts and he got custody of the "stuff". Don't want to go there again!
He refuses to work, makes no real effort to find a job. I want him OUT!!
HE WON'T LEAVE!!! Says he wants the dog and $25K. Don't have it and no way is he getting my dog (bought him when we were apart).
Would "the law" say he has been compensated justly already in the relationship (no bills, no expenses) or would they say I have to "maintain" a lifestyle he has become accustomed to.
I want to avoid drama, police and nosey neighbours (he has a really short fuse, lots of swearing and yelling).....beam me up Scotty!!!
Help!
Living with a guy on and off for about 13 years.
Facts:
I'm divorced
No kids (adult, mine)
Dog (no, an actual dog, not referring to the guy....yet..lol)
All bills, mortgage and any and all paper trail in my name and paid 100% by me, as well as the debts (PLC)
No joint anything.
His story:
Walks the dog and "babysits" when I have to go out of town.
Does laundry for about the last year 75% of the time.
No job, rarely works. In 13 years maybe 24 months total.
Keeps my couch warm, 100% of the time.
All ID has another address (not my house).
Before y'all say I'm just plain stupid (I know), I need some advice. I was divorced many years ago with no problems except I got custody of the debts and he got custody of the "stuff". Don't want to go there again!
He refuses to work, makes no real effort to find a job. I want him OUT!!
HE WON'T LEAVE!!! Says he wants the dog and $25K. Don't have it and no way is he getting my dog (bought him when we were apart).
Would "the law" say he has been compensated justly already in the relationship (no bills, no expenses) or would they say I have to "maintain" a lifestyle he has become accustomed to.
I want to avoid drama, police and nosey neighbours (he has a really short fuse, lots of swearing and yelling).....beam me up Scotty!!!
Help!
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