hey.....Many of you will understand how hard it was for me to leave my home,as you might have read my "not out of the house article".Well,I finally made it out,and stayed for 10 days.Saw my lawyer,changed my bank accounts etc.I crashed at my daughters,sleeping on the couch.When I returned to get car papers etc. in order,my husband talked me into trying this one more time.
My worry is this...who will get the house?We sold the trailer and paid off the small loan we had(for the car),and got very little for it.With my husbands spending history,this is what we do every 6 months.He buys a vehicle,fixes it up,sells and buys another.....hence,he has no money left from his first marriage.
If I stay,I'm telling him we will no longer depend on the monthly income from my late husbands estate.The lawyer tells me it is mine,and if I want some security in case this man dies before me,I need to let it alone and stop taking funds out from it....................just getting this off my chest...
My worry is this...who will get the house?We sold the trailer and paid off the small loan we had(for the car),and got very little for it.With my husbands spending history,this is what we do every 6 months.He buys a vehicle,fixes it up,sells and buys another.....hence,he has no money left from his first marriage.
If I stay,I'm telling him we will no longer depend on the monthly income from my late husbands estate.The lawyer tells me it is mine,and if I want some security in case this man dies before me,I need to let it alone and stop taking funds out from it....................just getting this off my chest...
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