Hello all,
Quick facts. I'm the dad. I represented myself. I won. I have full custody.
I'm not writing about horrible judges, quite the contrary, the only reasonable soul was the judge. It was really about my son's lawyer (OCL) and my ex's lawyer (legal aide). I knew they had more than a professional relationship caused by being in a small community. I figured it would have been hard to avoid. The fact of the matter is that they were so comfortable around each other that they became sloppy. I have emails where they are talking and then somehow forget and then emailed me...including their earlier "private" conversations about me...none flattering. The biggest piece of evidence is the form 14C that my ex wife's lawyer, or my son's lawyer, submitted to the record. It had my ex wife's lawyers name on it as in "My name is..." and she filled in her name (my ex wife's lawyer's name). They then filled in my ex-wife name for "and I am the lawyer for...". The part that sounds crazy but is true, is the fact that my son's lawyer signed it. The judge called it a forgery. The judge ruled in my favour.
Has anyone else had an experience of witnessing collusion between the OCL and they other side's lawyer...or your if you want to be honest?
Quick facts. I'm the dad. I represented myself. I won. I have full custody.
I'm not writing about horrible judges, quite the contrary, the only reasonable soul was the judge. It was really about my son's lawyer (OCL) and my ex's lawyer (legal aide). I knew they had more than a professional relationship caused by being in a small community. I figured it would have been hard to avoid. The fact of the matter is that they were so comfortable around each other that they became sloppy. I have emails where they are talking and then somehow forget and then emailed me...including their earlier "private" conversations about me...none flattering. The biggest piece of evidence is the form 14C that my ex wife's lawyer, or my son's lawyer, submitted to the record. It had my ex wife's lawyers name on it as in "My name is..." and she filled in her name (my ex wife's lawyer's name). They then filled in my ex-wife name for "and I am the lawyer for...". The part that sounds crazy but is true, is the fact that my son's lawyer signed it. The judge called it a forgery. The judge ruled in my favour.
Has anyone else had an experience of witnessing collusion between the OCL and they other side's lawyer...or your if you want to be honest?
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