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I am wondering what should I do at this point, should I just sign over custody? I dont wany my child's mother to be out of his life, but i dont want to be out of his life either.
what are the things that could come back to bite if i give custody to her.?
if I agree to give her custody I am already going to condition it with following
1- she cannot take our child out of country without consent.
2- she cannot give his custody to any one else (i am very confident that she will try to give custody to the maternal grandmother so that she can get married again)
3- she cannot change his name without consent.
4- all section seven expenses must be pre-approved or are her own responsibility?
how else can i de-tooth sole custody?
- Ex has had temporary sole custody starting Oct 2011 (about 2 years now)
- my position was either joint & shared custody or split/joint & shared custody. (thanks WorkingDaD)
- OCL recommended custody to her based on the restraining order (the false charges were withdrawn and hence no restraining order now)
- I disputed OCL's report
- Judge allowed to question the social worker for two hours but I am jobless now and cant afford the hefty fees.
- my counsel (pretty much pro-bono) is saying that ex has had custody for nearly two years, there is no way the judge is going to turn it over, so i should just give custody to ex and move on.
- the ex gives a lot of trouble with access, i.e. tries to increase conflict just to make a case that joint custody wont be possible.
I am wondering what should I do at this point, should I just sign over custody? I dont wany my child's mother to be out of his life, but i dont want to be out of his life either.
what are the things that could come back to bite if i give custody to her.?
if I agree to give her custody I am already going to condition it with following
1- she cannot take our child out of country without consent.
2- she cannot give his custody to any one else (i am very confident that she will try to give custody to the maternal grandmother so that she can get married again)
3- she cannot change his name without consent.
4- all section seven expenses must be pre-approved or are her own responsibility?
how else can i de-tooth sole custody?
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