Sorry for the long post, I and my ex-wife have been divorced for 6 years and I have moved to a different province because my employer moved me. We have joint custody of our 2 children (18 year old son and 17 year old daughter). I remarried 2 years ago. Here is the problem. My daughter accidently sent a message (along with 20 others that it was supposed to go to) a party invite for New Year’s Eve. But in the message she stated it would be BYOB and at a secret location to be revealed later. My wife showed me the message. We I called my Ex (We have a court order that all communication would be by e-mail unless it is an emergency, I decided this an emergency), she was surprised and said she did not know about the party and what was going on. I then messaged my daughter's boyfriend's step-father and sent him a copy of the screen shots. The next day he came back stating that she is responsible and has been to many of such parties and actually the boyfriend’s father will be at the party. My daughter then called me and chewed me out that I should have trusted her first and talked to her about it before going to her mother, and stated that here mother actually knew about the party and was driving her there and this happened quite frequently. I am pissed my EX would allow this and may other things...eg letting my daughter and her boyfriend (who is 16) sleep in the same bed at her house as long as the door is open. Would this be something that CAS should be informed or should I contact the local police?
Any wisdom or guidance would be great
Thanks
Any wisdom or guidance would be great
Thanks
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