I have been separated for about 10 months I left the house thinking my kids age 15 and 12 at the time would come to the conclusion that living with me would be better ( I know bad move). Ex got very emotional and has been alienating my children against me (lawyers words) ever since.
The ex moved 7 months ago almost 1000 km from our hometown after I charged her with assault (on advice from lawyer) do to my fears for the children’s safety and mine. CAS was involved but closed the case after they moved in to the mother in laws house.
Went to case conference and the judge advised the ex that she has to start encouraging the kids to have a relationship with me. This has been ignored. I have only been able to see my son once since they moved and my daughter says she does not want anything to do with me (except for the phone calls everyday with no one on the other end)
My youngest has now been hospitalized for anorexia but on the request of my daughter the hospital will not give me any information.
My son now says he does not want to see me because it upsets his mom and sister too much.
The only advice I seem to get from my lawyer is that I should keep paying the ex (and the lawyer more and more money). I pay child support per table and will be paying spousal support when the house is sold (not sure how much).
My questions are
Thanks for taking the time to read my rant any help would be appreciated for me and the well being of my kids
The ex moved 7 months ago almost 1000 km from our hometown after I charged her with assault (on advice from lawyer) do to my fears for the children’s safety and mine. CAS was involved but closed the case after they moved in to the mother in laws house.
Went to case conference and the judge advised the ex that she has to start encouraging the kids to have a relationship with me. This has been ignored. I have only been able to see my son once since they moved and my daughter says she does not want anything to do with me (except for the phone calls everyday with no one on the other end)
My youngest has now been hospitalized for anorexia but on the request of my daughter the hospital will not give me any information.
My son now says he does not want to see me because it upsets his mom and sister too much.
The only advice I seem to get from my lawyer is that I should keep paying the ex (and the lawyer more and more money). I pay child support per table and will be paying spousal support when the house is sold (not sure how much).
My questions are
- What repercussions can be brought against her for ignoring a court order?
- What are my chances of going to count alone and convincing the judge that what is happening to my kids is not healthy?
- What are some things I can try to make the kids see that I want the best for them? I send email and am guessing they are getting them
- My lawyer is telling me that because of the kids ages that no mater what kind of court order I have if they say they do not want to go there is nothing I can do. Is this true?
- Is there some way I can get info on the health of my daughter, or any info on my kids for that mater
Thanks for taking the time to read my rant any help would be appreciated for me and the well being of my kids
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