Your 14 year old will come around. They're full of hormones at this age and their peers are their entire universe. Whatever you do don't pressure her to stand up to her mom, it' just not fair to put them in the middle.
Mom says nasty things about you = Ignore it and let your behavior/access time prove her wrong without even bringing any of it up. Any PAS/Access denials, etc deal with in court only.
After a bunch of fun, positive visits (hate that word) with your kids, they will eventually tell their mom to shut up when she spits venom about you. If you bring stuff up, are hard on them, etc .. you're falling in to mom's trap. Don't do it.
Work for 50/50 of D8, if mom's wheel barrel of denials and proven PAS habits are significant enough. Your other kids will follow.
CAS had to tell mom to calm down on the PAS-like stuff right? Did you run to the court house and get an order for disclosure from CAS of that GOLDEN document?
Mom says nasty things about you = Ignore it and let your behavior/access time prove her wrong without even bringing any of it up. Any PAS/Access denials, etc deal with in court only.
After a bunch of fun, positive visits (hate that word) with your kids, they will eventually tell their mom to shut up when she spits venom about you. If you bring stuff up, are hard on them, etc .. you're falling in to mom's trap. Don't do it.
Work for 50/50 of D8, if mom's wheel barrel of denials and proven PAS habits are significant enough. Your other kids will follow.
CAS had to tell mom to calm down on the PAS-like stuff right? Did you run to the court house and get an order for disclosure from CAS of that GOLDEN document?
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