I would think if you were sending your child off for an outdoor visit at noon you would prep the child including feeding it and putting sun screen on.
There’s also this battle between not wanting dad to get the upper hand at court but also wanting to deal with his behaviour.
Your ex is useless as a caregiver, that is evident but he is still the child’s father and he should be able to spend time with his child without you hovering or spying.
You set the boundaries on the time and prepare kid for that time. If he has court ordered time (ie three hours every other Saturday) you follow up with him on Wednesday and ask if he plans to exercise his full time and that you will wait 48 hours for his confirmation otherwise you will not be available.
It is reasonable to set that boundary, it is not reasonable to behave in this manner.
There’s also this battle between not wanting dad to get the upper hand at court but also wanting to deal with his behaviour.
Your ex is useless as a caregiver, that is evident but he is still the child’s father and he should be able to spend time with his child without you hovering or spying.
You set the boundaries on the time and prepare kid for that time. If he has court ordered time (ie three hours every other Saturday) you follow up with him on Wednesday and ask if he plans to exercise his full time and that you will wait 48 hours for his confirmation otherwise you will not be available.
It is reasonable to set that boundary, it is not reasonable to behave in this manner.
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