Hello Community.....
I have had my disclosure meeting and the OCL's position is as follows:
1. EoW from Fri to Mon morning for me.
2. Wed evening dinner during school and Wed stayovers during summer.
2. Half all Holidays.
3. 3 weeks (21 days) in summer.
4. Primary residence and sole custody to mother.
I am thinking of accepting this. My children need there dad back. I have the following comments and am asking for communities comments as well.
1. Disclosure very one sided. It included a baseless police report where my stbx called the police to tell them I loosened her tire lug nuts. I nearly fell off my chair.
2. They omitted police report where stbx threatened self harm or any of her other bad behavior.
3. She claims to have no assets to the OCL. Why aren't the OCL verifying this ?
4. OCL waited until school year started to further entrench the status quo. STBX up and took kids to Toronto.
All in all seemed very on sided. Unfortunate, but the amount of access seems reasonable.
My concern is custody. The children are all older than 10 years. Is custody a big deal ?
My only concern is that she up and moves away again.
Getting tired of this. Been two years now.
I have had my disclosure meeting and the OCL's position is as follows:
1. EoW from Fri to Mon morning for me.
2. Wed evening dinner during school and Wed stayovers during summer.
2. Half all Holidays.
3. 3 weeks (21 days) in summer.
4. Primary residence and sole custody to mother.
I am thinking of accepting this. My children need there dad back. I have the following comments and am asking for communities comments as well.
1. Disclosure very one sided. It included a baseless police report where my stbx called the police to tell them I loosened her tire lug nuts. I nearly fell off my chair.
2. They omitted police report where stbx threatened self harm or any of her other bad behavior.
3. She claims to have no assets to the OCL. Why aren't the OCL verifying this ?
4. OCL waited until school year started to further entrench the status quo. STBX up and took kids to Toronto.
All in all seemed very on sided. Unfortunate, but the amount of access seems reasonable.
My concern is custody. The children are all older than 10 years. Is custody a big deal ?
My only concern is that she up and moves away again.
Getting tired of this. Been two years now.
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