So here it is. This is following the first thread I posted on the ODF. I decided to share my case here as it appears to be distinct from all the others that relates only to false allegations charged by the ex. I must recall that adding to false allegations of verbal abuse and domestic violence made by my ex to CAS, I was charged with threats to harm my ex at work. Maybe it did happen to others on this site and they decided to spare the details so they won't be the target of numerous guilty trips. The purpose of this is to aware people going into a litigious separation/divorce matter to keep their emotions, frustrations and injustice to family and close friends only. Best advise as others will only play interpretations to what you have said and could cause you nothing but trouble.
Within the next three weeks, my criminal case should drop with "unconditional forgiveness". It took all that long to prove that the accusations at work were over exaggerated (My manager is a freak paranoid on medication and lives in a soap opera world.) But hey, I wasn't careful enough and shit did happen and I am the one to blame. Happy this nightmare will be over as it is far enough to deal only with the matter of separation.
I wanted to go back to work but with my long absence and knowing I was still dealing with both family and criminal cases, my employer recommended that I seek professional advise from a doctor at Health Canada. After over two hours of consultation, with the high conflict divorce I'm going through, his advise was to remain on sick leave as my job would be at risk and would not be of the best interest. Same with my family doctor and psy. So there, I'm on invalidity allowances.
Financial concerns adds up to my anxiety. From the last CC, CS was based on that income. I was granted with supervised access at one of the two centers in Ottawa for 2 hours per week but the centers are so crowded, the waiting list is not before 3 months. More to that, it took over a month and a half for my ex to send the application. This was to make sure I didn't get to see my kids during the Holidays. Sucks real tight! Also, the 2nd center did not confirm yet they had received her application for access. Telling me that she applied only to one center. Anyway, I have proof that I applied to both centers in November and provided the other parties with my proof through my lawyer.
Within the next three weeks, my criminal case should drop with "unconditional forgiveness". It took all that long to prove that the accusations at work were over exaggerated (My manager is a freak paranoid on medication and lives in a soap opera world.) But hey, I wasn't careful enough and shit did happen and I am the one to blame. Happy this nightmare will be over as it is far enough to deal only with the matter of separation.
I wanted to go back to work but with my long absence and knowing I was still dealing with both family and criminal cases, my employer recommended that I seek professional advise from a doctor at Health Canada. After over two hours of consultation, with the high conflict divorce I'm going through, his advise was to remain on sick leave as my job would be at risk and would not be of the best interest. Same with my family doctor and psy. So there, I'm on invalidity allowances.
Financial concerns adds up to my anxiety. From the last CC, CS was based on that income. I was granted with supervised access at one of the two centers in Ottawa for 2 hours per week but the centers are so crowded, the waiting list is not before 3 months. More to that, it took over a month and a half for my ex to send the application. This was to make sure I didn't get to see my kids during the Holidays. Sucks real tight! Also, the 2nd center did not confirm yet they had received her application for access. Telling me that she applied only to one center. Anyway, I have proof that I applied to both centers in November and provided the other parties with my proof through my lawyer.
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