I have separated in september of 2008, we have no children together and been common law since aug 2000. I let the ex live in the house as she had a business and needed a place to stay. This was mistake number one as we started to argued and stopped talking all together. Mistake number 2, I started negotiate the division of furniture etc, of course it did not take long that she wanted half the value of the house, pension, everything, but I was accused of not wanting to negotiate and she got a lawyer. Mistake 3 The insurance was due in March and I did not want to take insurance for her bussiness so i ask her to pay for her own insurance. So she had to find another place to carry out her business. Finally I got a lawyer and was told she was moving out the 1 of june, I was arrested on the 29 May 2009, i was called by the police for harassment, rape (in 2008 before our separation???), and domestic mischief. Of course I was kick out of the house and was force to go live with my mom (I adore my mom but it is not my house).
So the morale of the story is do not wait, get a lawyer and kick her or him out right away, do not try to be nice. Because the other person may not be the same then you knew before and may press charge even if nothing happened. Desperation i would think. But the consequence for you may be disatrous, job, future and you are guilty until proven innocent. Yes I was sent to Jail, and this could not be stopped as her version for the police was the only one that counted.
So that everyone know the house is in my name only and I am the only one that have done the payment for tax, utilities and bill.
So the morale of the story is do not wait, get a lawyer and kick her or him out right away, do not try to be nice. Because the other person may not be the same then you knew before and may press charge even if nothing happened. Desperation i would think. But the consequence for you may be disatrous, job, future and you are guilty until proven innocent. Yes I was sent to Jail, and this could not be stopped as her version for the police was the only one that counted.
So that everyone know the house is in my name only and I am the only one that have done the payment for tax, utilities and bill.
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