How long did you browse, lurk and revisit this site until you finally decided to do it? I first came here about 6 months ago.
I want to divorce my wife. We have two very young children S9 D5. I don't really love her anymore. I think I stopped loving her a long time ago. There is no violence or cheating ... I just dont feel anything for her anymore. When we had children my plan was that I don't want to screw them up... So I would stick it out until they become of age and then get divorced. I realize now that that was a stupid plan. I will get very sick by sticking it out in a miserable marriage for the next 10 to 15 years. I can't cheat on her and my family. I just want to end my job of being a husband to my wife but continue my job of being a father to my children.
I want to divorce her because I am very unhappy being married to her. I also think she is unhappy being married to me. I am convinced we would be better and happier people if we weren't married to each other.
I was thinking of writing out a separation agreement and having her sign it. I want to try to make it an amicable divorce if possible. In the agreement I will state that we do not share the same bed or room. I will also avoid all joint family functions. (Its not that far a stretch from where we are now. We have awkward miserable sex once every couple of months and she is very often moody that I often sleep in the spare room as it is.) I will move into the spare room permanently for 12 months. Once that is over I will move out of the house. After the divorce is final and some time has passed I will consider dating again. At this point in my life I feel the last thing I want is to get involved with another woman and deal with her issues.
I want to divorce my wife. We have two very young children S9 D5. I don't really love her anymore. I think I stopped loving her a long time ago. There is no violence or cheating ... I just dont feel anything for her anymore. When we had children my plan was that I don't want to screw them up... So I would stick it out until they become of age and then get divorced. I realize now that that was a stupid plan. I will get very sick by sticking it out in a miserable marriage for the next 10 to 15 years. I can't cheat on her and my family. I just want to end my job of being a husband to my wife but continue my job of being a father to my children.
I want to divorce her because I am very unhappy being married to her. I also think she is unhappy being married to me. I am convinced we would be better and happier people if we weren't married to each other.
I was thinking of writing out a separation agreement and having her sign it. I want to try to make it an amicable divorce if possible. In the agreement I will state that we do not share the same bed or room. I will also avoid all joint family functions. (Its not that far a stretch from where we are now. We have awkward miserable sex once every couple of months and she is very often moody that I often sleep in the spare room as it is.) I will move into the spare room permanently for 12 months. Once that is over I will move out of the house. After the divorce is final and some time has passed I will consider dating again. At this point in my life I feel the last thing I want is to get involved with another woman and deal with her issues.
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