Hey everyone:
I know it's been awhile since I have posted. I have been so busy with the new job, and the kidsm and X-mas. Not to mention that I had a pre-trial exam last week (Which was hell- it only lasted about 20 minutes - but I was so worked up before i went in I ended up crying at the end of it) The ex's lawyer really didn't know what to ask me however.
Anyways, my settlement conference was scheduled for Thursday. And at the last minute the ex calls his lawyer and tells him that he can't mak it becuse of the weather. ** Newsflash buddy, I made it into work, the lawyers were 5 minutes from the court housem and you have driven in worse weather drunk** But ofcourse they decided to reschedule the damn Settlement conference. Now the date is set for MAY. 5 Months away. Can you believe that shit.
I found out that day that my spousal support order was never issued either. FRO never got it because everyone keeps on messing up the paperwork etc... (The order was issued in AUGUST) and it may still take 2-3 weeks for me to get ny of that money.
Somedays I just want to scream.
Ok, so I have a question... I was always under the impression that you can't get a divorce until everthing else gets settled.... financial etc....
Is it true that I can ask my lawyer to apply for the divorce so I can be divorced even before we settle everything - and is it possible that this cn be settled before the court date in MAY???
I know it's been awhile since I have posted. I have been so busy with the new job, and the kidsm and X-mas. Not to mention that I had a pre-trial exam last week (Which was hell- it only lasted about 20 minutes - but I was so worked up before i went in I ended up crying at the end of it) The ex's lawyer really didn't know what to ask me however.
Anyways, my settlement conference was scheduled for Thursday. And at the last minute the ex calls his lawyer and tells him that he can't mak it becuse of the weather. ** Newsflash buddy, I made it into work, the lawyers were 5 minutes from the court housem and you have driven in worse weather drunk** But ofcourse they decided to reschedule the damn Settlement conference. Now the date is set for MAY. 5 Months away. Can you believe that shit.
I found out that day that my spousal support order was never issued either. FRO never got it because everyone keeps on messing up the paperwork etc... (The order was issued in AUGUST) and it may still take 2-3 weeks for me to get ny of that money.
Somedays I just want to scream.
Ok, so I have a question... I was always under the impression that you can't get a divorce until everthing else gets settled.... financial etc....
Is it true that I can ask my lawyer to apply for the divorce so I can be divorced even before we settle everything - and is it possible that this cn be settled before the court date in MAY???
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