So, I told my husband a week or two ago that I'm done with the marriage. He's been carrying on ever since. Went on a three day trip and came home even crazier. I had gone into my room to collect the rest of my stuff. I got some clothes, hangers, some toiletries and a duvet. He told me I stole the duvet. I said he had another brand new one that he packed, so I just took that since sleeping on the couch is getting cold. He said he wanted things to be amicable and wouldn't leave until I could afford it. He asked if September 1st was ok. Then he said I stole a more stuff from him and I should "prepare for September 1st".
Last night at 11:30 he emailed me saying I stole stuff from the bedroom and was disgusted with my behaviour. Then at 3:30 am he emailed me asking me to come to bed tomorrow and lay next to him in the dark and he wants to tell me something and that I was right all along (I'm assuming about the cocaine). I gathered all his kitchen stuff and put it in front of the bedroom door for him to pack and so I wouldn't get accused of stealing anything. I wrote him an email saying that his request was inappropriate under the circumstances and that I'd like him to move out as planned on September 1st. He came home and started kicking the pots and pans down the hallway and scared the crap out my daughter. He said to get his name off the title and and won't leave until then. The real estate lawyer says he can't do that and it needs to be through a divorce lawyer via separation agreement.
I feel like we're never going to feel safe again. I can't keep sleeping on the couch, it's been four months. I start a new job next week. How am I going to get through this?
Last night at 11:30 he emailed me saying I stole stuff from the bedroom and was disgusted with my behaviour. Then at 3:30 am he emailed me asking me to come to bed tomorrow and lay next to him in the dark and he wants to tell me something and that I was right all along (I'm assuming about the cocaine). I gathered all his kitchen stuff and put it in front of the bedroom door for him to pack and so I wouldn't get accused of stealing anything. I wrote him an email saying that his request was inappropriate under the circumstances and that I'd like him to move out as planned on September 1st. He came home and started kicking the pots and pans down the hallway and scared the crap out my daughter. He said to get his name off the title and and won't leave until then. The real estate lawyer says he can't do that and it needs to be through a divorce lawyer via separation agreement.
I feel like we're never going to feel safe again. I can't keep sleeping on the couch, it's been four months. I start a new job next week. How am I going to get through this?
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