Ex by court order (consent) has access to children several times through the year. He lives in a different province and in the order he does not pay support as the cost of travel is high and he pays for it.
He has an access visit scheduled for thanksgiving weekend. Order states from Friday after school until the Monday. He attempted first to book the travel in the wee hours of Friday morning at the airport almost 3 hours away. I told him no way as I have to work in the morning. He has now booked the travel for 11am, at the airport close to my home. Still not after school. Why? Because he is cheap. He is literally saving thousands a year by only paying their travel. He is now refusing to change the time to accomodate their school hours and what was put in the order. It is a difference of a couple hundred dollars.
I told him they will not be going until after school, he wont budge at all and told me to contact his lawyer. I'm not refusing access, I just want it to be what is in the court order. I am beyong the "negotiating" point with him, he is far to unreasonable so I just follow the court order to a tee. Last time I tried to be accomodate and negotiate he in return barraged me with letters from his lawyer as he was not happy with what he asked for.
What would you do? Any advice on what I should do?
He has an access visit scheduled for thanksgiving weekend. Order states from Friday after school until the Monday. He attempted first to book the travel in the wee hours of Friday morning at the airport almost 3 hours away. I told him no way as I have to work in the morning. He has now booked the travel for 11am, at the airport close to my home. Still not after school. Why? Because he is cheap. He is literally saving thousands a year by only paying their travel. He is now refusing to change the time to accomodate their school hours and what was put in the order. It is a difference of a couple hundred dollars.
I told him they will not be going until after school, he wont budge at all and told me to contact his lawyer. I'm not refusing access, I just want it to be what is in the court order. I am beyong the "negotiating" point with him, he is far to unreasonable so I just follow the court order to a tee. Last time I tried to be accomodate and negotiate he in return barraged me with letters from his lawyer as he was not happy with what he asked for.
What would you do? Any advice on what I should do?
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