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Old 09-17-2021, 08:03 PM
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Parent A:
Wants to change child support (decrease their burden)
,Provided their NOA and an updated NOAs
,needs at least a small change in child support even if temporary as the court delays by Parent B continue.

Parent B:
Wants to be difficult.
Will provide their NOA
Will not provide updated NOAs from previous years.
Is hiding money
Will not provide paystubs from a new higher paying job
Will not provide documentation showing they tried to find work during COVID


Parent A suspects Parent B is trying to get a mortgage so wants their court order to show they are getting an obscene amount of money every month as income.


How does Parent A go about getting at least the small change in first and how long can Parent B stall?

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Old 09-18-2021, 03:14 PM
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The ex's lawyer did not notify me they were not representing anymore.
Before I file the motion for change of support may I contact them for the information?
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Old 09-18-2021, 09:44 PM
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How do you know they arent representing them anymore. If you dont know if they are represented, you could serve both the lawyer and your ex.
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Old 09-20-2021, 09:42 AM
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Can I ask and get things like a job description?
What dirty tricks can I avoid or should I expect?
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Old 09-20-2021, 02:31 PM
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If you are trying to prove they are purposely underemployed then you can ask for their resume and jobs applied to but no to a job description.

If you are trying to prove they are lying about their income you can ask for proof of any credit or mortgage applications as they would have to put down their income.

Avoiding dirty tricks is easy as you just know what you are entitled to and only ask for that. Plus dont delay.
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Old 09-20-2021, 04:50 PM
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I have delayed 2 months since they were employed and 8 months since another items would have reduced my obligation.

I was under the impression that I could get that money back, yes, I know it can complicate things.

Why should I avoid delaying?
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Old 09-20-2021, 04:53 PM
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I want to find out why they don't have any income from bank account interest. With 100K in the bank they should have at least something.
Yeah or nay?
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Old 09-20-2021, 05:22 PM
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I want to find out why they don't have any income from bank account interest. With 100K in the bank they should have at least something.
Yeah or nay?

Interest on bank accounts isnt considered as income for several reasons. Usually its quite low, it sometimes gets reinvested so its not necessarily seen and it is not their sole source of income. That is not a hill to die on.


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Old 09-20-2021, 05:23 PM
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I have delayed 2 months since they were employed and 8 months since another items would have reduced my obligation.

I was under the impression that I could get that money back, yes, I know it can complicate things.

Why should I avoid delaying?

When I say dont delay I mean dont play bullshit games like avoiding disclosure, ignoring orders, asking for adjournments etc. Some people sit on information or refuse to disclose or ask for repeated adjournments which is a bs move. Be reasonable. Your delays listed are reasonable.
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Old 09-20-2021, 07:10 PM
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Actually Rocksan isn’t totally correct. Interest on investments can indeed be counted as income. It depends on the individual situation. In my case my ex has millions invested and lives off the interest and dividends generated by his investments, therefor that is counted as income.
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